"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dealing with Attention *****s

Nikar

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Hi,

Suppose there's a girl I like and she's some kinda attention *****, always hanging around with boys and as if 80% of her life revolves around boys.

Is there any specific way to beat the crap outta these bastards? That girl I like is more like a Level 2 attention *****, not a level 3 or 4 type.
I don't wanna NEXT this girl, you know.
(and forget about the One-Itis thing too) :)

Thanks,
Nikar.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Nikar

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Thanks for your help, themanwithnoname!
One more thing, and I would like to seek the opinions of others.

Suppose a guy is an attention *****(or dude) himself and the girl is also an attention *****.

In your opinion, will they get along well cos' they're both AWs?
Or will the relationship be even more stormy and destructive than ever? :D :confused:

Thanks guys,
Nikar.
 

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girls like that are very easy to maintain cuz they are so use to getting attention that if you don't give it up,they'll go crazy for you.i use to date a stripper like that.i'd just sit back like i was the coolest guy in whatever place we were at.I was always the "prize" in our relationship so everything was smooth.they are usually the harder girls to get because they usually have their choice of men because of their outgoing personalities.Just play the game and realize that your the prize and she really NEEDS your attention
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Tom Cruise is an AW.

so is Katie Holmes as an AW.

So the answer is yes, an outgoing AW female will do well with an ingoing AW male.

They basically complement each other.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Tom Cruise is an AW.

so is Katie Holmes as an AW.

So the answer is yes.

They basically complement each other.
 

Nikar

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Thanks for your reply, guys!
One more questions.

Is it true that the C + F always works? Like you know, you're dealing with a HB9.9 or HB10(and I mean very very beautiful). All the guys are like sucking up to her, being really nice to her, and some are even extreme enough to act as her counsellors and moral support providers!!!!
Argh!!!! Suppose that she doesn't realize this, what am I gonna do? Continue with the "i'm the prize", the C + F and the laid-back attitude?

The problem is : if I take a laid-back attitude, she might think that I'm not interested and that I'm just treating her like a pal....and she may classify me on a sub-conscious level under the LJBF land!

Do advise,
Nikar
 
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