"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dealing with Attention *****s

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Hi,

Suppose there's a girl I like and she's some kinda attention *****, always hanging around with boys and as if 80% of her life revolves around boys.

Is there any specific way to beat the crap outta these bastards? That girl I like is more like a Level 2 attention *****, not a level 3 or 4 type.
I don't wanna NEXT this girl, you know.
(and forget about the One-Itis thing too) :)

Thanks,
Nikar.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thanks for your help, themanwithnoname!
One more thing, and I would like to seek the opinions of others.

Suppose a guy is an attention *****(or dude) himself and the girl is also an attention *****.

In your opinion, will they get along well cos' they're both AWs?
Or will the relationship be even more stormy and destructive than ever? :D :confused:

Thanks guys,
Nikar.
 

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girls like that are very easy to maintain cuz they are so use to getting attention that if you don't give it up,they'll go crazy for you.i use to date a stripper like that.i'd just sit back like i was the coolest guy in whatever place we were at.I was always the "prize" in our relationship so everything was smooth.they are usually the harder girls to get because they usually have their choice of men because of their outgoing personalities.Just play the game and realize that your the prize and she really NEEDS your attention
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Tom Cruise is an AW.

so is Katie Holmes as an AW.

So the answer is yes, an outgoing AW female will do well with an ingoing AW male.

They basically complement each other.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tom Cruise is an AW.

so is Katie Holmes as an AW.

So the answer is yes.

They basically complement each other.
 

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Thanks for your reply, guys!
One more questions.

Is it true that the C + F always works? Like you know, you're dealing with a HB9.9 or HB10(and I mean very very beautiful). All the guys are like sucking up to her, being really nice to her, and some are even extreme enough to act as her counsellors and moral support providers!!!!
Argh!!!! Suppose that she doesn't realize this, what am I gonna do? Continue with the "i'm the prize", the C + F and the laid-back attitude?

The problem is : if I take a laid-back attitude, she might think that I'm not interested and that I'm just treating her like a pal....and she may classify me on a sub-conscious level under the LJBF land!

Do advise,
Nikar
 
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