"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dealing with Attention *****s

Nikar

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Hi,

Suppose there's a girl I like and she's some kinda attention *****, always hanging around with boys and as if 80% of her life revolves around boys.

Is there any specific way to beat the crap outta these bastards? That girl I like is more like a Level 2 attention *****, not a level 3 or 4 type.
I don't wanna NEXT this girl, you know.
(and forget about the One-Itis thing too) :)

Thanks,
Nikar.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Nikar

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Thanks for your help, themanwithnoname!
One more thing, and I would like to seek the opinions of others.

Suppose a guy is an attention *****(or dude) himself and the girl is also an attention *****.

In your opinion, will they get along well cos' they're both AWs?
Or will the relationship be even more stormy and destructive than ever? :D :confused:

Thanks guys,
Nikar.
 

Neoscarecrue

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girls like that are very easy to maintain cuz they are so use to getting attention that if you don't give it up,they'll go crazy for you.i use to date a stripper like that.i'd just sit back like i was the coolest guy in whatever place we were at.I was always the "prize" in our relationship so everything was smooth.they are usually the harder girls to get because they usually have their choice of men because of their outgoing personalities.Just play the game and realize that your the prize and she really NEEDS your attention
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Tom Cruise is an AW.

so is Katie Holmes as an AW.

So the answer is yes, an outgoing AW female will do well with an ingoing AW male.

They basically complement each other.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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darthsidious

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Tom Cruise is an AW.

so is Katie Holmes as an AW.

So the answer is yes.

They basically complement each other.
 

Nikar

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Thanks for your reply, guys!
One more questions.

Is it true that the C + F always works? Like you know, you're dealing with a HB9.9 or HB10(and I mean very very beautiful). All the guys are like sucking up to her, being really nice to her, and some are even extreme enough to act as her counsellors and moral support providers!!!!
Argh!!!! Suppose that she doesn't realize this, what am I gonna do? Continue with the "i'm the prize", the C + F and the laid-back attitude?

The problem is : if I take a laid-back attitude, she might think that I'm not interested and that I'm just treating her like a pal....and she may classify me on a sub-conscious level under the LJBF land!

Do advise,
Nikar
 
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