"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dealing with Attention *****s

Nikar

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Hi,

Suppose there's a girl I like and she's some kinda attention *****, always hanging around with boys and as if 80% of her life revolves around boys.

Is there any specific way to beat the crap outta these bastards? That girl I like is more like a Level 2 attention *****, not a level 3 or 4 type.
I don't wanna NEXT this girl, you know.
(and forget about the One-Itis thing too) :)

Thanks,
Nikar.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Nikar

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Thanks for your help, themanwithnoname!
One more thing, and I would like to seek the opinions of others.

Suppose a guy is an attention *****(or dude) himself and the girl is also an attention *****.

In your opinion, will they get along well cos' they're both AWs?
Or will the relationship be even more stormy and destructive than ever? :D :confused:

Thanks guys,
Nikar.
 

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girls like that are very easy to maintain cuz they are so use to getting attention that if you don't give it up,they'll go crazy for you.i use to date a stripper like that.i'd just sit back like i was the coolest guy in whatever place we were at.I was always the "prize" in our relationship so everything was smooth.they are usually the harder girls to get because they usually have their choice of men because of their outgoing personalities.Just play the game and realize that your the prize and she really NEEDS your attention
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Tom Cruise is an AW.

so is Katie Holmes as an AW.

So the answer is yes, an outgoing AW female will do well with an ingoing AW male.

They basically complement each other.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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darthsidious

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Tom Cruise is an AW.

so is Katie Holmes as an AW.

So the answer is yes.

They basically complement each other.
 

Nikar

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Thanks for your reply, guys!
One more questions.

Is it true that the C + F always works? Like you know, you're dealing with a HB9.9 or HB10(and I mean very very beautiful). All the guys are like sucking up to her, being really nice to her, and some are even extreme enough to act as her counsellors and moral support providers!!!!
Argh!!!! Suppose that she doesn't realize this, what am I gonna do? Continue with the "i'm the prize", the C + F and the laid-back attitude?

The problem is : if I take a laid-back attitude, she might think that I'm not interested and that I'm just treating her like a pal....and she may classify me on a sub-conscious level under the LJBF land!

Do advise,
Nikar
 
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