Dealing with Alpha "friends"

Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

RangerMIke

Master Don Juan

Feb 25, 2016

Who Dares Win said:
Regarding the girl, here I disagree about dumping her, I would instead gradually remove any emotional and psychological investment in her while still keeping the sexual part the same, think or downgrading her from girlfriend to friend with benefits, making it clear that she is in the high way to be reduced to a fvck buddy if she doesnt work hard to deserve her position.

True... hadn't thought of that... make her a FB, based on what this guy is saying, she'd likely go for it.... He just needs to make sure he's wearing a condom, and as long as he's okay with her fvcking other dudes, this will work out nicely for him.

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.