You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This will MOST DEFINATELY be in Vegas! DLH and Mayweather both usually fight in Vegas!PRMoon said:I saw it this morning! This fight had BETTER be in Vegas, otherwise I'm gonna be really really pissed. If I can find out which casino this is at I'm going to hit up the manager and tell him to get me tickets NOW. May 5 is like around the corner!!!!
I think it may be a good thing. Floyd Jr will probably want to stand and trade with Oscar at times, just out of a macho thing with his father! Would be a very bad move for Floyd Jr! I wonder if Floyd Sr will write a poem about his son! hahaha. That would be too funny!Jayer said:Looks like Mayweather SR will be in oscars corner...
dont know if thats a good thing!
LOL! Because training means, HEAPS! Have you seen Zab Judah train? What about Kostya Tszyu? Zab looks WAY BETTER, and more flashy in training, didnt mean a THING in the ring!Jayer said:Check out this link and tell me truthfully if after watching this, does Oscar has a chance?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ARYOHrqZ-CQ
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.