"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
De La Hoya Vs Mayweather
- Thread starter Reyaj
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
i think theyre psyching it up a lil too much, but i'm definetly watching it
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
this is one of the few fights that I think is hyped for an actual reason. Oscar's against Myorga (sp?)
And Floyd's one against Baldemir (sp?)
hyped for no reason.
And Floyd's one against Baldemir (sp?)
hyped for no reason.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I saw it this morning! This fight had BETTER be in Vegas, otherwise I'm gonna be really really pissed. If I can find out which casino this is at I'm going to hit up the manager and tell him to get me tickets NOW. May 5 is like around the corner!!!!
Yeah, this is a fight hyped for a very good reason!
Who will win? Very good question! I think I will take DLH by a stoppage, he will check Mayweathers chin with a counter left hook! Mayweather tends to put his chin out in the air as he throws punches sometimes, which is a very dangerous thing to do against a man with a great and powerful left hook counter! Not to mention, DLH will be FAR bigger in there at 154! By fight time, DLH will probably be up around 165+ , whilst Mayweather will only be around 154 or less by fighttime. Probably around a 15lb difference, that is 2 weight divisions! Every dog has his day, and I think this time its Mayweathers turn to see his 0 go!
Who will win? Very good question! I think I will take DLH by a stoppage, he will check Mayweathers chin with a counter left hook! Mayweather tends to put his chin out in the air as he throws punches sometimes, which is a very dangerous thing to do against a man with a great and powerful left hook counter! Not to mention, DLH will be FAR bigger in there at 154! By fight time, DLH will probably be up around 165+ , whilst Mayweather will only be around 154 or less by fighttime. Probably around a 15lb difference, that is 2 weight divisions! Every dog has his day, and I think this time its Mayweathers turn to see his 0 go!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This will MOST DEFINATELY be in Vegas! DLH and Mayweather both usually fight in Vegas!PRMoon said:I saw it this morning! This fight had BETTER be in Vegas, otherwise I'm gonna be really really pissed. If I can find out which casino this is at I'm going to hit up the manager and tell him to get me tickets NOW. May 5 is like around the corner!!!!
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
Looks like Mayweather SR will be in oscars corner...
dont know if thats a good thing!
dont know if thats a good thing!
I think it may be a good thing. Floyd Jr will probably want to stand and trade with Oscar at times, just out of a macho thing with his father! Would be a very bad move for Floyd Jr! I wonder if Floyd Sr will write a poem about his son! hahaha. That would be too funny!Jayer said:Looks like Mayweather SR will be in oscars corner...
dont know if thats a good thing!
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
Check out this link and tell me truthfully if after watching this, does Oscar has a chance?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ARYOHrqZ-CQ
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ARYOHrqZ-CQ
LOL! Because training means, HEAPS! Have you seen Zab Judah train? What about Kostya Tszyu? Zab looks WAY BETTER, and more flashy in training, didnt mean a THING in the ring!Jayer said:Check out this link and tell me truthfully if after watching this, does Oscar has a chance?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ARYOHrqZ-CQ
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.