"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
De La Hoya Vs Mayweather
- Thread starter Reyaj
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
i think theyre psyching it up a lil too much, but i'm definetly watching it
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
this is one of the few fights that I think is hyped for an actual reason. Oscar's against Myorga (sp?)
And Floyd's one against Baldemir (sp?)
hyped for no reason.
And Floyd's one against Baldemir (sp?)
hyped for no reason.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I saw it this morning! This fight had BETTER be in Vegas, otherwise I'm gonna be really really pissed. If I can find out which casino this is at I'm going to hit up the manager and tell him to get me tickets NOW. May 5 is like around the corner!!!!
Yeah, this is a fight hyped for a very good reason!
Who will win? Very good question! I think I will take DLH by a stoppage, he will check Mayweathers chin with a counter left hook! Mayweather tends to put his chin out in the air as he throws punches sometimes, which is a very dangerous thing to do against a man with a great and powerful left hook counter! Not to mention, DLH will be FAR bigger in there at 154! By fight time, DLH will probably be up around 165+ , whilst Mayweather will only be around 154 or less by fighttime. Probably around a 15lb difference, that is 2 weight divisions! Every dog has his day, and I think this time its Mayweathers turn to see his 0 go!
Who will win? Very good question! I think I will take DLH by a stoppage, he will check Mayweathers chin with a counter left hook! Mayweather tends to put his chin out in the air as he throws punches sometimes, which is a very dangerous thing to do against a man with a great and powerful left hook counter! Not to mention, DLH will be FAR bigger in there at 154! By fight time, DLH will probably be up around 165+ , whilst Mayweather will only be around 154 or less by fighttime. Probably around a 15lb difference, that is 2 weight divisions! Every dog has his day, and I think this time its Mayweathers turn to see his 0 go!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
This will MOST DEFINATELY be in Vegas! DLH and Mayweather both usually fight in Vegas!PRMoon said:I saw it this morning! This fight had BETTER be in Vegas, otherwise I'm gonna be really really pissed. If I can find out which casino this is at I'm going to hit up the manager and tell him to get me tickets NOW. May 5 is like around the corner!!!!
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
Looks like Mayweather SR will be in oscars corner...
dont know if thats a good thing!
dont know if thats a good thing!
I think it may be a good thing. Floyd Jr will probably want to stand and trade with Oscar at times, just out of a macho thing with his father! Would be a very bad move for Floyd Jr! I wonder if Floyd Sr will write a poem about his son! hahaha. That would be too funny!Jayer said:Looks like Mayweather SR will be in oscars corner...
dont know if thats a good thing!
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
Check out this link and tell me truthfully if after watching this, does Oscar has a chance?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ARYOHrqZ-CQ
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ARYOHrqZ-CQ
LOL! Because training means, HEAPS! Have you seen Zab Judah train? What about Kostya Tszyu? Zab looks WAY BETTER, and more flashy in training, didnt mean a THING in the ring!Jayer said:Check out this link and tell me truthfully if after watching this, does Oscar has a chance?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ARYOHrqZ-CQ
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.