You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
This will MOST DEFINATELY be in Vegas! DLH and Mayweather both usually fight in Vegas!PRMoon said:I saw it this morning! This fight had BETTER be in Vegas, otherwise I'm gonna be really really pissed. If I can find out which casino this is at I'm going to hit up the manager and tell him to get me tickets NOW. May 5 is like around the corner!!!!
I think it may be a good thing. Floyd Jr will probably want to stand and trade with Oscar at times, just out of a macho thing with his father! Would be a very bad move for Floyd Jr! I wonder if Floyd Sr will write a poem about his son! hahaha. That would be too funny!Jayer said:Looks like Mayweather SR will be in oscars corner...
dont know if thats a good thing!
LOL! Because training means, HEAPS! Have you seen Zab Judah train? What about Kostya Tszyu? Zab looks WAY BETTER, and more flashy in training, didnt mean a THING in the ring!Jayer said:Check out this link and tell me truthfully if after watching this, does Oscar has a chance?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ARYOHrqZ-CQ
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.