danthemann
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anyone have some good openers for the day? like right after a class or walking around on a campus?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Nino-Tk
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I would rather opt to come up with a opener spontaneously on the spot. But you could just say 'Hi how are you doing'.
HeyPachuco!
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Informational and Situational Openers have worked best for me in Day Game.
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Combine the answers of Nino, f283000, and Pachuco! These are all cool, but to each their own. As we all know, there is no magic pill. Don't look for one OP or you'll f**k yourself over.
Judge nismo is gonna add never talk about mundane sh*t like her job or the weather. Pay attention to something she has on or an item she has and break the ice that way. I personally don't like messing with moving targets, but there are ice breakers. Finding a unique feature on her (not her erect nipples through her shirt) and talk about it with you and her. If it's just her, her value keeps going up. Be sure to kino, build rapport, and chemistry. Flirt too dammit! That's my ruling!
Case closed.
Judge nismo is gonna add never talk about mundane sh*t like her job or the weather. Pay attention to something she has on or an item she has and break the ice that way. I personally don't like messing with moving targets, but there are ice breakers. Finding a unique feature on her (not her erect nipples through her shirt) and talk about it with you and her. If it's just her, her value keeps going up. Be sure to kino, build rapport, and chemistry. Flirt too dammit! That's my ruling!
Case closed.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
^^^ This is what I do.nismo-4 said:
The other day I'm walking around campus and notice this girl holding a folder on top of her phone. She wasn't my type but I decided to still play with her (hey, always practice!)
Me: [Making a huge deal and giving her a playful grin] "Hey, what the hell are you doing!?"
Her: "What? Oh! I'm trying to see my phone's screen!" [this is outside around Noon]
Me: LOL. I thought you were trying to take a pic of something and wanted to change the lighting!"
Her: LOL.
At this point I would have gone for the Name Test and if passed, I would have number closed. However, like I said, the chick wasn't my type so I didn't want to get her hopes up!
wt_firefighter
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I have this same problem. I always see hot girls walking around campus but I never have anything to chat them up with. For instance today I saw a very hot girl walking and I now regret not trying to talk to her. I guess I feel awkward going strait up to a girl and trying to talk to them. How ever I am going to try to get over this in the next couple of weeks hopefully.
dutchmaster
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That's the spirit! Remember it's only awkward if you make it awkward.wt_firefighter said:
Easier said than done for sure, but practice makes perfect.
SamTheHobit
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You can literally say wtf you wan't for day game openers. It's night game that a little tougher because they are being approached a couple of times that night.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I know a dude who is alarmingly forward. He's from Latin America, so it figures right? Anyway, to me, the dude is creepy forward. Yet he's always chatting with girls in this cafe. Now perhaps he freaks them out and they run away later, but he's an inspiration. Obviously his crazy "friendliness" (LOL yeah right he just happens to be friends to the cutest girls around) works despite the obviousness of it.
Is it fair to think that girls admire that confidence even if it's ridiculous? As in - it matters much more how you say something to them than what you say? Maybe they admire a dude with balls, even if he's ostensibly silly as hell.
Is it fair to think that girls admire that confidence even if it's ridiculous? As in - it matters much more how you say something to them than what you say? Maybe they admire a dude with balls, even if he's ostensibly silly as hell.