danthemann
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anyone have some good openers for the day? like right after a class or walking around on a campus?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
I would rather opt to come up with a opener spontaneously on the spot. But you could just say 'Hi how are you doing'.
HeyPachuco!
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Informational and Situational Openers have worked best for me in Day Game.
nismo-4
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Combine the answers of Nino, f283000, and Pachuco! These are all cool, but to each their own. As we all know, there is no magic pill. Don't look for one OP or you'll f**k yourself over.
Judge nismo is gonna add never talk about mundane sh*t like her job or the weather. Pay attention to something she has on or an item she has and break the ice that way. I personally don't like messing with moving targets, but there are ice breakers. Finding a unique feature on her (not her erect nipples through her shirt) and talk about it with you and her. If it's just her, her value keeps going up. Be sure to kino, build rapport, and chemistry. Flirt too dammit! That's my ruling!
Case closed.
Judge nismo is gonna add never talk about mundane sh*t like her job or the weather. Pay attention to something she has on or an item she has and break the ice that way. I personally don't like messing with moving targets, but there are ice breakers. Finding a unique feature on her (not her erect nipples through her shirt) and talk about it with you and her. If it's just her, her value keeps going up. Be sure to kino, build rapport, and chemistry. Flirt too dammit! That's my ruling!
Case closed.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
^^^ This is what I do.nismo-4 said:
The other day I'm walking around campus and notice this girl holding a folder on top of her phone. She wasn't my type but I decided to still play with her (hey, always practice!)
Me: [Making a huge deal and giving her a playful grin] "Hey, what the hell are you doing!?"
Her: "What? Oh! I'm trying to see my phone's screen!" [this is outside around Noon]
Me: LOL. I thought you were trying to take a pic of something and wanted to change the lighting!"
Her: LOL.
At this point I would have gone for the Name Test and if passed, I would have number closed. However, like I said, the chick wasn't my type so I didn't want to get her hopes up!
wt_firefighter
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I have this same problem. I always see hot girls walking around campus but I never have anything to chat them up with. For instance today I saw a very hot girl walking and I now regret not trying to talk to her. I guess I feel awkward going strait up to a girl and trying to talk to them. How ever I am going to try to get over this in the next couple of weeks hopefully.
dutchmaster
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That's the spirit! Remember it's only awkward if you make it awkward.wt_firefighter said:
Easier said than done for sure, but practice makes perfect.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
You can literally say wtf you wan't for day game openers. It's night game that a little tougher because they are being approached a couple of times that night.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I know a dude who is alarmingly forward. He's from Latin America, so it figures right? Anyway, to me, the dude is creepy forward. Yet he's always chatting with girls in this cafe. Now perhaps he freaks them out and they run away later, but he's an inspiration. Obviously his crazy "friendliness" (LOL yeah right he just happens to be friends to the cutest girls around) works despite the obviousness of it.
Is it fair to think that girls admire that confidence even if it's ridiculous? As in - it matters much more how you say something to them than what you say? Maybe they admire a dude with balls, even if he's ostensibly silly as hell.
Is it fair to think that girls admire that confidence even if it's ridiculous? As in - it matters much more how you say something to them than what you say? Maybe they admire a dude with balls, even if he's ostensibly silly as hell.