danthemann
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anyone have some good openers for the day? like right after a class or walking around on a campus?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Nino-Tk
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I would rather opt to come up with a opener spontaneously on the spot. But you could just say 'Hi how are you doing'.
HeyPachuco!
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Informational and Situational Openers have worked best for me in Day Game.
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Combine the answers of Nino, f283000, and Pachuco! These are all cool, but to each their own. As we all know, there is no magic pill. Don't look for one OP or you'll f**k yourself over.
Judge nismo is gonna add never talk about mundane sh*t like her job or the weather. Pay attention to something she has on or an item she has and break the ice that way. I personally don't like messing with moving targets, but there are ice breakers. Finding a unique feature on her (not her erect nipples through her shirt) and talk about it with you and her. If it's just her, her value keeps going up. Be sure to kino, build rapport, and chemistry. Flirt too dammit! That's my ruling!
Case closed.
Judge nismo is gonna add never talk about mundane sh*t like her job or the weather. Pay attention to something she has on or an item she has and break the ice that way. I personally don't like messing with moving targets, but there are ice breakers. Finding a unique feature on her (not her erect nipples through her shirt) and talk about it with you and her. If it's just her, her value keeps going up. Be sure to kino, build rapport, and chemistry. Flirt too dammit! That's my ruling!
Case closed.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
^^^ This is what I do.nismo-4 said:
The other day I'm walking around campus and notice this girl holding a folder on top of her phone. She wasn't my type but I decided to still play with her (hey, always practice!)
Me: [Making a huge deal and giving her a playful grin] "Hey, what the hell are you doing!?"
Her: "What? Oh! I'm trying to see my phone's screen!" [this is outside around Noon]
Me: LOL. I thought you were trying to take a pic of something and wanted to change the lighting!"
Her: LOL.
At this point I would have gone for the Name Test and if passed, I would have number closed. However, like I said, the chick wasn't my type so I didn't want to get her hopes up!
wt_firefighter
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I have this same problem. I always see hot girls walking around campus but I never have anything to chat them up with. For instance today I saw a very hot girl walking and I now regret not trying to talk to her. I guess I feel awkward going strait up to a girl and trying to talk to them. How ever I am going to try to get over this in the next couple of weeks hopefully.
dutchmaster
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That's the spirit! Remember it's only awkward if you make it awkward.wt_firefighter said:
Easier said than done for sure, but practice makes perfect.
SamTheHobit
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You can literally say wtf you wan't for day game openers. It's night game that a little tougher because they are being approached a couple of times that night.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I know a dude who is alarmingly forward. He's from Latin America, so it figures right? Anyway, to me, the dude is creepy forward. Yet he's always chatting with girls in this cafe. Now perhaps he freaks them out and they run away later, but he's an inspiration. Obviously his crazy "friendliness" (LOL yeah right he just happens to be friends to the cutest girls around) works despite the obviousness of it.
Is it fair to think that girls admire that confidence even if it's ridiculous? As in - it matters much more how you say something to them than what you say? Maybe they admire a dude with balls, even if he's ostensibly silly as hell.
Is it fair to think that girls admire that confidence even if it's ridiculous? As in - it matters much more how you say something to them than what you say? Maybe they admire a dude with balls, even if he's ostensibly silly as hell.