"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dave Matthews Band Concert

jlazz

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Anyone going to this on Sunday? For those of you who've gone to a concert before...what do you usually wear? Also what time do they usually start? I'm trying to decide if I should go or not (this girl invited me to go because she had an extra ticket).
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's Dave Matthews, not Gigantour or something. Just wear something comfy. hell yeah go... ill go just about anywhere for free....except for that bad experience at the circus!!
 

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Well I am not much of a concert person but I did go to see Linkin Park and when I got there I bought a sweet tee and it's a fav of mine. So just wear something and buy the tee to go over it.
 

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Man, DMB concerts are really fun. Hell, just wear laid back clothes, shorts and a tshirt. I'm going to see them in San Fran in August :cool:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ah. A bunch of my friends got caught with almost 3 oz. of weed. THe cops ambushed them from the woods when they were tailgating before the show. The cops let 'em go before it started so it was all good.


And jlazz, you seem to make alot of threads about what to wear. Its really not that big of a deal. People really dont judge you much by what you wear. And if they do, they're shallow and you shouldn't waste your time with them anyway.
 

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Yea, I'm going to Gigantour on the 2nd :D I can't wait. Dream Theater is soo awesome. The last concert I went to was the Straylight Run Concert in Oklahoma City Bricktown. It was inside so I wore something that would keep me kinda cool. (It gets really hot in there because everyone's soo close together.) If it's outside, it kinda depends on what the weather's nice. But if you're going with a chick, dress a little nice when you go.
 
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