Anyone going to this on Sunday? For those of you who've gone to a concert before...what do you usually wear? Also what time do they usually start? I'm trying to decide if I should go or not (this girl invited me to go because she had an extra ticket).
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dave Matthews Band Concert
- Thread starter jlazz
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
psh go man. free ticket.
strams4ever
Don Juan
It's Dave Matthews, not Gigantour or something. Just wear something comfy. hell yeah go... ill go just about anywhere for free....except for that bad experience at the circus!!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
AchillesLastStand
Don Juan
Ah. A bunch of my friends got caught with almost 3 oz. of weed. THe cops ambushed them from the woods when they were tailgating before the show. The cops let 'em go before it started so it was all good.
And jlazz, you seem to make alot of threads about what to wear. Its really not that big of a deal. People really dont judge you much by what you wear. And if they do, they're shallow and you shouldn't waste your time with them anyway.
And jlazz, you seem to make alot of threads about what to wear. Its really not that big of a deal. People really dont judge you much by what you wear. And if they do, they're shallow and you shouldn't waste your time with them anyway.
Yea, I'm going to Gigantour on the 2nd 
I can't wait. Dream Theater is soo awesome. The last concert I went to was the Straylight Run Concert in Oklahoma City Bricktown. It was inside so I wore something that would keep me kinda cool. (It gets really hot in there because everyone's soo close together.) If it's outside, it kinda depends on what the weather's nice. But if you're going with a chick, dress a little nice when you go.
I can't wait. Dream Theater is soo awesome. The last concert I went to was the Straylight Run Concert in Oklahoma City Bricktown. It was inside so I wore something that would keep me kinda cool. (It gets really hot in there because everyone's soo close together.) If it's outside, it kinda depends on what the weather's nice. But if you're going with a chick, dress a little nice when you go.Big Eee Zee
Master Don Juan
DMB is one of the finest bands out there, imo. Go and love it.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
im jealous