Anyone going to this on Sunday? For those of you who've gone to a concert before...what do you usually wear? Also what time do they usually start? I'm trying to decide if I should go or not (this girl invited me to go because she had an extra ticket).
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Dave Matthews Band Concert
- Thread starter jlazz
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
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dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
psh go man. free ticket.
strams4ever
Don Juan
It's Dave Matthews, not Gigantour or something. Just wear something comfy. hell yeah go... ill go just about anywhere for free....except for that bad experience at the circus!!
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AchillesLastStand
Don Juan
Ah. A bunch of my friends got caught with almost 3 oz. of weed. THe cops ambushed them from the woods when they were tailgating before the show. The cops let 'em go before it started so it was all good.
And jlazz, you seem to make alot of threads about what to wear. Its really not that big of a deal. People really dont judge you much by what you wear. And if they do, they're shallow and you shouldn't waste your time with them anyway.
And jlazz, you seem to make alot of threads about what to wear. Its really not that big of a deal. People really dont judge you much by what you wear. And if they do, they're shallow and you shouldn't waste your time with them anyway.
Yea, I'm going to Gigantour on the 2nd 
I can't wait. Dream Theater is soo awesome. The last concert I went to was the Straylight Run Concert in Oklahoma City Bricktown. It was inside so I wore something that would keep me kinda cool. (It gets really hot in there because everyone's soo close together.) If it's outside, it kinda depends on what the weather's nice. But if you're going with a chick, dress a little nice when you go.
I can't wait. Dream Theater is soo awesome. The last concert I went to was the Straylight Run Concert in Oklahoma City Bricktown. It was inside so I wore something that would keep me kinda cool. (It gets really hot in there because everyone's soo close together.) If it's outside, it kinda depends on what the weather's nice. But if you're going with a chick, dress a little nice when you go.Big Eee Zee
Master Don Juan
DMB is one of the finest bands out there, imo. Go and love it.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
im jealous