"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dave Matthews Band Concert

jlazz

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Anyone going to this on Sunday? For those of you who've gone to a concert before...what do you usually wear? Also what time do they usually start? I'm trying to decide if I should go or not (this girl invited me to go because she had an extra ticket).
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's Dave Matthews, not Gigantour or something. Just wear something comfy. hell yeah go... ill go just about anywhere for free....except for that bad experience at the circus!!
 

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Well I am not much of a concert person but I did go to see Linkin Park and when I got there I bought a sweet tee and it's a fav of mine. So just wear something and buy the tee to go over it.
 

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Man, DMB concerts are really fun. Hell, just wear laid back clothes, shorts and a tshirt. I'm going to see them in San Fran in August :cool:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ah. A bunch of my friends got caught with almost 3 oz. of weed. THe cops ambushed them from the woods when they were tailgating before the show. The cops let 'em go before it started so it was all good.


And jlazz, you seem to make alot of threads about what to wear. Its really not that big of a deal. People really dont judge you much by what you wear. And if they do, they're shallow and you shouldn't waste your time with them anyway.
 

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Yea, I'm going to Gigantour on the 2nd :D I can't wait. Dream Theater is soo awesome. The last concert I went to was the Straylight Run Concert in Oklahoma City Bricktown. It was inside so I wore something that would keep me kinda cool. (It gets really hot in there because everyone's soo close together.) If it's outside, it kinda depends on what the weather's nice. But if you're going with a chick, dress a little nice when you go.
 
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