"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dating women that believe in that "Energy Field" mumbo jumbo

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You ever date a woman that would spout off about energy fields and auras? I dunno, there's just something a bit off about women who believe in that stuff, right?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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That is not something you believe. Energy is real, bro. You feel it, but maybe you don't understand or can explain it all the time. Everything is energy. You should read about it.
 

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That is not something you believe. Energy is real, bro. You feel it, but maybe you don't understand or can explain it all the time. Everything is energy. You should read about it.
If you say so. Some of the crystal crunchers can be pretty wacked though.
 

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If you say so. Some of the crystal crunchers can be pretty wacked though.
No, no, not because I say so. You live in 2017 with any information at the tip of your hand. Don't believe me. I created my own beliefs and I keep them fairly flexible and dynamic because my thoughts and beliefs change if necessary. Research it yourself, is what I meant. But of course, if any woman is too much into it, then by any means, dispose. If anyone is TOO much in anything there is, it;'s not healthy.
 

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Energy is just a word to describe the attitude someone tends to eminate. Some folks truly are positive and others negative. Some are black holes and you have Suns that emit light and positive energy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lmao

I've had a girlfriend who's sister was a professional psychic. Seen her on the TV before on a ghost show, even.

Her whole family were fvcking crazy. It was quite a laugh.

You shouldn't take what women say very seriously anyway. And loads of women believe in spiritual stuff to some degree.

You don't have to believe it yourself. Just have fun with it. Don't be one of those obnoxious and boring "atheist" types.
Don't forget about those who use "The Secret" as their own personal bible
 

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Well technically everything in existence is energy.. even physics supports that..
Your girlfriend is a 8 or 9. But she always has a mean mug and a strong negative attitude. She makes you jump a few extra hurdles to have sex and has a bunch of rules behind it.

This will drain your aura and wont be good for your "mojo" as a man.
 

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I have 29 different stones. I just like to collect them, though (think Hank on Breaking Bad).

Everything is energy. Everything responds to energy, including you. But there are only 2 stones that control my destiny, and they're in my boxer-briefs.
 

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Depends on their level of interest. I found that all women have interest in spirituality whether it is bs or real. That's why the cube routine and other cold read actions work wonders if done correctly and with congruency to your personality type. It creates the aura that you are in tune with deeper "things", which often helps with buyer's remorse and ASD.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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That is not something you believe. Energy is real, bro. You feel it, but maybe you don't understand or can explain it all the time. Everything is energy. You should read about it.

Yes, we are here because of energy, but there is zero scientific evidence for that spirituality mumbo jumbo.
 

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Yes, we are here because of energy, but there is zero scientific evidence for that spirituality mumbo jumbo.
I never mentioned anything of the kind LOL I just said that there is energy around every person and you can easily feel it/see it. Some people are full of negative energy inside so that's what they project, some others project positivity. No need to go into reading auras behind the screen and **** like this
 

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I never mentioned anything of the kind LOL I just said that there is energy around every person and you can easily feel it/see it. Some people are full of negative energy inside so that's what they project, some others project positivity. No need to go into reading auras behind the screen and **** like this
As far as we know, a person's actions is based on biochemistry. As far as seeing/feeling how someone is, this has nothing to do with energy. We evolved to read nonverbal, physical cues.
 

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James Randi has been proven to be a fraud. He only exposes frauds who are entertainers....I have had pre-cog dreams, ESP experiences so I know its real from personal experience. I don't have a framework for my experiences, but they happened. I don't know about crystals and all of that, but Astrology might have some merit, of course not that stuff you read in the paper. Its deeper then that.....don't call stuff mumbo jumbo unless you studied it extensively.....its a straw man tactic
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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