"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Dating women that believe in that "Energy Field" mumbo jumbo
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
lizardking82
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If you say so. Some of the crystal crunchers can be pretty wacked though.
lizardking82
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No, no, not because I say so. You live in 2017 with any information at the tip of your hand. Don't believe me. I created my own beliefs and I keep them fairly flexible and dynamic because my thoughts and beliefs change if necessary. Research it yourself, is what I meant. But of course, if any woman is too much into it, then by any means, dispose. If anyone is TOO much in anything there is, it;'s not healthy.
mrgoodstuff
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Don't forget about those who use "The Secret" as their own personal bible
Well technically everything in existence is energy.. even physics supports that..
mrgoodstuff
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Your girlfriend is a 8 or 9. But she always has a mean mug and a strong negative attitude. She makes you jump a few extra hurdles to have sex and has a bunch of rules behind it.
This will drain your aura and wont be good for your "mojo" as a man.
Everything is energy. Everything responds to energy, including you. But there are only 2 stones that control my destiny, and they're in my boxer-briefs.
SuckItUp
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Yes, we are here because of energy, but there is zero scientific evidence for that spirituality mumbo jumbo.
lizardking82
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I never mentioned anything of the kind LOL I just said that there is energy around every person and you can easily feel it/see it. Some people are full of negative energy inside so that's what they project, some others project positivity. No need to go into reading auras behind the screen and **** like this
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As far as we know, a person's actions is based on biochemistry. As far as seeing/feeling how someone is, this has nothing to do with energy. We evolved to read nonverbal, physical cues.
PeasantPlayer
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Randi buddy debunked by a vedic astrologer