I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If you say so. Some of the crystal crunchers can be pretty wacked though.That is not something you believe. Energy is real, bro. You feel it, but maybe you don't understand or can explain it all the time. Everything is energy. You should read about it.
No, no, not because I say so. You live in 2017 with any information at the tip of your hand. Don't believe me. I created my own beliefs and I keep them fairly flexible and dynamic because my thoughts and beliefs change if necessary. Research it yourself, is what I meant. But of course, if any woman is too much into it, then by any means, dispose. If anyone is TOO much in anything there is, it;'s not healthy.If you say so. Some of the crystal crunchers can be pretty wacked though.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Don't forget about those who use "The Secret" as their own personal biblelmao
I've had a girlfriend who's sister was a professional psychic. Seen her on the TV before on a ghost show, even.
Her whole family were fvcking crazy. It was quite a laugh.
You shouldn't take what women say very seriously anyway. And loads of women believe in spiritual stuff to some degree.
You don't have to believe it yourself. Just have fun with it. Don't be one of those obnoxious and boring "atheist" types.
Well technically everything in existence is energy.. even physics supports that..You ever date a woman that would spout off about energy fields and auras? I dunno, there's just something a bit off about women who believe in that stuff, right?
Your girlfriend is a 8 or 9. But she always has a mean mug and a strong negative attitude. She makes you jump a few extra hurdles to have sex and has a bunch of rules behind it.Well technically everything in existence is energy.. even physics supports that..
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That is not something you believe. Energy is real, bro. You feel it, but maybe you don't understand or can explain it all the time. Everything is energy. You should read about it.
I never mentioned anything of the kind LOL I just said that there is energy around every person and you can easily feel it/see it. Some people are full of negative energy inside so that's what they project, some others project positivity. No need to go into reading auras behind the screen and **** like this
Yes, we are here because of energy, but there is zero scientific evidence for that spirituality mumbo jumbo.
As far as we know, a person's actions is based on biochemistry. As far as seeing/feeling how someone is, this has nothing to do with energy. We evolved to read nonverbal, physical cues.I never mentioned anything of the kind LOL I just said that there is energy around every person and you can easily feel it/see it. Some people are full of negative energy inside so that's what they project, some others project positivity. No need to go into reading auras behind the screen and **** like this
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.