"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dating women that believe in that "Energy Field" mumbo jumbo
- Thread starter ThisNThat
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
lizardking82
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If you say so. Some of the crystal crunchers can be pretty wacked though.
lizardking82
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No, no, not because I say so. You live in 2017 with any information at the tip of your hand. Don't believe me. I created my own beliefs and I keep them fairly flexible and dynamic because my thoughts and beliefs change if necessary. Research it yourself, is what I meant. But of course, if any woman is too much into it, then by any means, dispose. If anyone is TOO much in anything there is, it;'s not healthy.
mrgoodstuff
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Don't forget about those who use "The Secret" as their own personal bible
Well technically everything in existence is energy.. even physics supports that..
mrgoodstuff
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Your girlfriend is a 8 or 9. But she always has a mean mug and a strong negative attitude. She makes you jump a few extra hurdles to have sex and has a bunch of rules behind it.
This will drain your aura and wont be good for your "mojo" as a man.
Everything is energy. Everything responds to energy, including you. But there are only 2 stones that control my destiny, and they're in my boxer-briefs.
SuckItUp
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
usernamedox11
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Yes, we are here because of energy, but there is zero scientific evidence for that spirituality mumbo jumbo.
lizardking82
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I never mentioned anything of the kind LOL I just said that there is energy around every person and you can easily feel it/see it. Some people are full of negative energy inside so that's what they project, some others project positivity. No need to go into reading auras behind the screen and **** like this
usernamedox11
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As far as we know, a person's actions is based on biochemistry. As far as seeing/feeling how someone is, this has nothing to do with energy. We evolved to read nonverbal, physical cues.
PeasantPlayer
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Randi buddy debunked by a vedic astrologer