"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hello Fellow Dons, Manly Men, and lady killahs,

So I have a little problem on my hands. Well, let me start from the beginning. So I have been dating this girl for a couple months, we have gone on 4 dates and have hung out on numerous occasions, but last week when she told me she liked me I froze kinda and told her I was indifferent. Since then she has been extremely flakey and cold. She even went so far as to tell me she is going on a date with another dude the night I asked her out again. We finally ended up meeting up one night and talking, after I sent her an ultimatum text... I was weak. I told her I didn't want her dating/****ing other guys (I know big mistake), then she proceeded to tell me that we weren't really even dating. That she saw what we were doing as just friends hanging out. Well... We have already slept together and before I told her I was indifferent she was totally into me. I guess what I am asking is what should I do to get her back to where she was before I screwed things up. Is it possible? Also side note, the last time she texted me was Monday I replied, she didn't respond, and it is now Thursday. We haven't had any contact what so ever even though I see she is still updating her social media everyday. I think this chick is pretty cool tbh, any and all advice is welcome. Thank you in advance for the replies

--Conbonn
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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get new one. shes interested in someone else. if you slept together and kissed then I would call that dating, shes just justifying it in her head.
 
Urbanyst

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You sound desperate.

Why would a woman ever trust a guy who chases her after saying he is "indifferent"? LOL. Your actions don't match your words. So you are a fraud. The trust is gone. Lights out. Time to move on.

For future reference, never tell a woman you are indifferent about her. Always tell her you have feeling for her and you care about her. In that case, you can proceed to ACT indifferent and she will let you get away with it while making excuses for you lol.

Women are stupid, but if you're going to lie to them be smart about it.
 
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I'd let it go, maybe at some point in the future you can try again. For now its a lost cause. Chalk this one up as a learning experience.
 
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