"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Dating Three Girls At the Same Time

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I've met several girls at parties I've been going to. These girls are all great: very pretty, cool personalities, smart, just chill. There's one I like more than the others, and we're going out at the end of the week for a casual lunch date. The thing is, she has two girlfriends I've met at previous parties. They are all best buds. I'm definitely dating the first girl. And both of the other girls have made it known they'd like to date me as well.

I have a strong suspicion that they wouldn't mind if I dated all of them at once, as long as I made a decision eventually to be exclusive with one of them. The reason I think they'd be cool with them is that they have flirted with me as a group, and they don't get jealous if I flirt with one or all of them together. But, I guess the AFC in me says: "choose one."

Is this chode-ish mentality, or am I running a risk of jealousy ruining things? Experienced players chime in...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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They are friends? I dunno if that would work out for long. I think what would happen is they would choose for you, meaning two of them would say to their girlfriend "you can have him"

But what do you have to lose
 
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hahah, dude, times like this I like to think life is a game. Your goal in this game, is to juggle banging the 3 friends as long as possible until something comes tumbling down.

Bonus points if you take the tumbling down and make it into a 3some or 4some.


If you really want to take it to the top, set up a 3way or 4 way relationship.
 
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There's actually a fourth girl from this circle of girls who wants to date me too. She's perhaps not as physically attractive, but she's basically the social coordinator of her group. So I may have to incorporate her somehow...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Have fun with it while it lasts, these things have always blown up in my face.

"Chase two rabbits not in the same pasture, lest you lose them both."
 
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What's the worst that happens? 4 chicks ultra pissed at you? Big deal. Figure out what you want from all this, what your "best scenario" is and go for it.

I wouldn't be too concerned with keeping secrets, cause this sort of stuff can build on one another. Maybe not long term sustainable, but anyways have fun with it man.
 
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