"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dating Three Girls At the Same Time

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I've met several girls at parties I've been going to. These girls are all great: very pretty, cool personalities, smart, just chill. There's one I like more than the others, and we're going out at the end of the week for a casual lunch date. The thing is, she has two girlfriends I've met at previous parties. They are all best buds. I'm definitely dating the first girl. And both of the other girls have made it known they'd like to date me as well.

I have a strong suspicion that they wouldn't mind if I dated all of them at once, as long as I made a decision eventually to be exclusive with one of them. The reason I think they'd be cool with them is that they have flirted with me as a group, and they don't get jealous if I flirt with one or all of them together. But, I guess the AFC in me says: "choose one."

Is this chode-ish mentality, or am I running a risk of jealousy ruining things? Experienced players chime in...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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They are friends? I dunno if that would work out for long. I think what would happen is they would choose for you, meaning two of them would say to their girlfriend "you can have him"

But what do you have to lose
 
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hahah, dude, times like this I like to think life is a game. Your goal in this game, is to juggle banging the 3 friends as long as possible until something comes tumbling down.

Bonus points if you take the tumbling down and make it into a 3some or 4some.


If you really want to take it to the top, set up a 3way or 4 way relationship.
 
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There's actually a fourth girl from this circle of girls who wants to date me too. She's perhaps not as physically attractive, but she's basically the social coordinator of her group. So I may have to incorporate her somehow...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Have fun with it while it lasts, these things have always blown up in my face.

"Chase two rabbits not in the same pasture, lest you lose them both."
 
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What's the worst that happens? 4 chicks ultra pissed at you? Big deal. Figure out what you want from all this, what your "best scenario" is and go for it.

I wouldn't be too concerned with keeping secrets, cause this sort of stuff can build on one another. Maybe not long term sustainable, but anyways have fun with it man.
 
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