"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dating Three Girls At the Same Time

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I've met several girls at parties I've been going to. These girls are all great: very pretty, cool personalities, smart, just chill. There's one I like more than the others, and we're going out at the end of the week for a casual lunch date. The thing is, she has two girlfriends I've met at previous parties. They are all best buds. I'm definitely dating the first girl. And both of the other girls have made it known they'd like to date me as well.

I have a strong suspicion that they wouldn't mind if I dated all of them at once, as long as I made a decision eventually to be exclusive with one of them. The reason I think they'd be cool with them is that they have flirted with me as a group, and they don't get jealous if I flirt with one or all of them together. But, I guess the AFC in me says: "choose one."

Is this chode-ish mentality, or am I running a risk of jealousy ruining things? Experienced players chime in...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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They are friends? I dunno if that would work out for long. I think what would happen is they would choose for you, meaning two of them would say to their girlfriend "you can have him"

But what do you have to lose
 
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hahah, dude, times like this I like to think life is a game. Your goal in this game, is to juggle banging the 3 friends as long as possible until something comes tumbling down.

Bonus points if you take the tumbling down and make it into a 3some or 4some.


If you really want to take it to the top, set up a 3way or 4 way relationship.
 
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There's actually a fourth girl from this circle of girls who wants to date me too. She's perhaps not as physically attractive, but she's basically the social coordinator of her group. So I may have to incorporate her somehow...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Have fun with it while it lasts, these things have always blown up in my face.

"Chase two rabbits not in the same pasture, lest you lose them both."
 
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What's the worst that happens? 4 chicks ultra pissed at you? Big deal. Figure out what you want from all this, what your "best scenario" is and go for it.

I wouldn't be too concerned with keeping secrets, cause this sort of stuff can build on one another. Maybe not long term sustainable, but anyways have fun with it man.
 
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