mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Tons of gains in life when you focus on what's important.
"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
Dating on a low budget
- Thread starter andreihaha
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Black Widow Void
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Groupon is a good option.
It's also a great way to screen women. I've called up and said ... "hey, I've got a groupon to a cool restaurant that is about to expire next week (between you, me and the forum members, it is never soon expiring... I then continue by saying) . "Let's go check it out this weekend."
This way, it sets a tone that you're not going to be tossing out a lot of money, but you thought enough of her to ask her out.
Also, carry around some "airplane" liquor sized bottles. It's cheap, and a nice to addition to a beverage (while taking a hike or walking in the park together ).
It's also a great way to screen women. I've called up and said ... "hey, I've got a groupon to a cool restaurant that is about to expire next week (between you, me and the forum members, it is never soon expiring... I then continue by saying) . "Let's go check it out this weekend."
This way, it sets a tone that you're not going to be tossing out a lot of money, but you thought enough of her to ask her out.
Also, carry around some "airplane" liquor sized bottles. It's cheap, and a nice to addition to a beverage (while taking a hike or walking in the park together ).
Hmmm... this sounds like the attitude of a virgin that is over-compensating in public.
powersize
Senior Don Juan
Aren't you a girl?
no, he's not, as far as I know.
keep questioning though, there are some pretending to be men here.
I'm female but my thought processes are like a guy. But I never pretend I am one.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
andreihaha
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Oh, I'm just saying that I don't want to. I very much enjoy the company of women.
And to be honest, money in never a primary goal of mine.