mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Tons of gains in life when you focus on what's important.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dating on a low budget
- Thread starter andreihaha
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Black Widow Void
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Groupon is a good option.
It's also a great way to screen women. I've called up and said ... "hey, I've got a groupon to a cool restaurant that is about to expire next week (between you, me and the forum members, it is never soon expiring... I then continue by saying) . "Let's go check it out this weekend."
This way, it sets a tone that you're not going to be tossing out a lot of money, but you thought enough of her to ask her out.
Also, carry around some "airplane" liquor sized bottles. It's cheap, and a nice to addition to a beverage (while taking a hike or walking in the park together ).
It's also a great way to screen women. I've called up and said ... "hey, I've got a groupon to a cool restaurant that is about to expire next week (between you, me and the forum members, it is never soon expiring... I then continue by saying) . "Let's go check it out this weekend."
This way, it sets a tone that you're not going to be tossing out a lot of money, but you thought enough of her to ask her out.
Also, carry around some "airplane" liquor sized bottles. It's cheap, and a nice to addition to a beverage (while taking a hike or walking in the park together ).
Hmmm... this sounds like the attitude of a virgin that is over-compensating in public.
powersize
Senior Don Juan
Aren't you a girl?
no, he's not, as far as I know.
keep questioning though, there are some pretending to be men here.
I'm female but my thought processes are like a guy. But I never pretend I am one.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
andreihaha
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Oh, I'm just saying that I don't want to. I very much enjoy the company of women.
And to be honest, money in never a primary goal of mine.