"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Dating more than one girl

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Hi guys, I am currently dating 2 girls, and neither of them knows about the other girl.

What are your thoughts on this? I have to be honest and say I feel pretty guilty sometimes, as I know it's 'dishonest', but I also get a buzz out of it.

Are you guys generally up front with your girls about the fact you are seeing other women, or do you hide the fact?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The problem is I am supposed to be 'going out' with Girl A, but seeing Girl B on the side.
 
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I don't feel bad about it. Usually, if I'm dating more than one girl at a time, none of us had made ANY insinuation that this is exclusive. In which case, there's no reason to feel guilty.

Alexi
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Unless you are into a serious bonafide relationship there is absolutely nothing wrong with seeing several girls at the same time.

In fact, I always assume that the girls I am initially dating are also seeing other guys. That is just part of the dating process. Eventually you weed out the ones you don't like and end up with the one who is compatible.
 
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exactly..dont feel guilty unless you tell 1 of them hey im not seeing anyone else.

then u would be a liar! :)


but its not wrong....its only human to feel guilty!
 
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Nothing wrong with 'dating' more than one woman.
 
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Originally posted by sapphire
Unless you are into a serious bonafide relationship there is absolutely nothing wrong with seeing several girls at the same time.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I don't see anything wrong with what your doing bro, but you're playing a dangerous game keeping them 'both' in the dark. Now you have to work twice as hard. It's allot easier for you when one of the girls knows the deal.
 
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Yeah... Tell Girl B about Girl A, let her know she is only coming second place.
But at the same time, try to get Girl A interested in a threesome. With a bit of charm you might pull it off. If Girl B is happy with being the 'other woman' her lower morals will probably sink to a threesome.
 
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I like the way you think Crem...
 
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