Dating more than one girl

[Guitar_Whizz]

Hi guys, I am currently dating 2 girls, and neither of them knows about the other girl.

What are your thoughts on this? I have to be honest and say I feel pretty guilty sometimes, as I know it's 'dishonest', but I also get a buzz out of it.

Are you guys generally up front with your girls about the fact you are seeing other women, or do you hide the fact?

 

[squirrels]

Why do you feel "guilty"?

"Dating" is nothing. If one was your girlfriend, it'd be different.

 

[Life-Trainee]

I felt guilty once but she woke up half way through...

 

[Guitar_Whizz]

The problem is I am supposed to be 'going out' with Girl A, but seeing Girl B on the side.

 

[sfalexi]

I don't feel bad about it. Usually, if I'm dating more than one girl at a time, none of us had made ANY insinuation that this is exclusive. In which case, there's no reason to feel guilty.

Alexi

 

[MetalFortress]

If you are honest with them and not exclusive with any of them, no problem.

 

[sapphire]

Unless you are into a serious bonafide relationship there is absolutely nothing wrong with seeing several girls at the same time.

In fact, I always assume that the girls I am initially dating are also seeing other guys. That is just part of the dating process. Eventually you weed out the ones you don't like and end up with the one who is compatible.

 

[frivolousz21]

exactly..dont feel guilty unless you tell 1 of them hey im not seeing anyone else.

then u would be a liar!


but its not wrong....its only human to feel guilty!

 

[az94]

Nothing wrong with 'dating' more than one woman.

 

[SageOFAllenAge]

Originally posted by sapphire
Unless you are into a serious bonafide relationship there is absolutely nothing wrong with seeing several girls at the same time.

He is into a ...

 

[biker_gixxer]

I don't see anything wrong with what your doing bro, but you're playing a dangerous game keeping them 'both' in the dark. Now you have to work twice as hard. It's allot easier for you when one of the girls knows the deal.

 

[Cremasta]

Yeah... Tell Girl B about Girl A, let her know she is only coming second place.
But at the same time, try to get Girl A interested in a threesome. With a bit of charm you might pull it off. If Girl B is happy with being the 'other woman' her lower morals will probably sink to a threesome.

 

[biker_gixxer]

I like the way you think Crem...

 

[SpeedRunner]

I'm doing the same thing right now.