"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dating more than one girl

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Guitar_Whizz

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Hi guys, I am currently dating 2 girls, and neither of them knows about the other girl.

What are your thoughts on this? I have to be honest and say I feel pretty guilty sometimes, as I know it's 'dishonest', but I also get a buzz out of it.

Are you guys generally up front with your girls about the fact you are seeing other women, or do you hide the fact?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The problem is I am supposed to be 'going out' with Girl A, but seeing Girl B on the side.
 
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I don't feel bad about it. Usually, if I'm dating more than one girl at a time, none of us had made ANY insinuation that this is exclusive. In which case, there's no reason to feel guilty.

Alexi
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Unless you are into a serious bonafide relationship there is absolutely nothing wrong with seeing several girls at the same time.

In fact, I always assume that the girls I am initially dating are also seeing other guys. That is just part of the dating process. Eventually you weed out the ones you don't like and end up with the one who is compatible.
 
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exactly..dont feel guilty unless you tell 1 of them hey im not seeing anyone else.

then u would be a liar! :)


but its not wrong....its only human to feel guilty!
 
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Nothing wrong with 'dating' more than one woman.
 
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Originally posted by sapphire
Unless you are into a serious bonafide relationship there is absolutely nothing wrong with seeing several girls at the same time.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I don't see anything wrong with what your doing bro, but you're playing a dangerous game keeping them 'both' in the dark. Now you have to work twice as hard. It's allot easier for you when one of the girls knows the deal.
 
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Yeah... Tell Girl B about Girl A, let her know she is only coming second place.
But at the same time, try to get Girl A interested in a threesome. With a bit of charm you might pull it off. If Girl B is happy with being the 'other woman' her lower morals will probably sink to a threesome.
 
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I like the way you think Crem...
 
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