"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dating is REALLY going to suck around here for awhile now!

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I live in an area that was in the eyewall of Ian. I mean dead center of it! Already the oldest area of the United States, but Ian took out Ft. Myers beach, and surrounding areas like mine that didn't get storm surge got wind damage. Lots of damage to homes. Lots of restaurants, bars destroyed. I woudn't be shocked with the high insurance rates to come that young people simply move out of FL now.

But Ft. Myers beach is demolished. Think of the MS coastline after Katrina. Everything wiped out. Most spring breakers and young people will go up to St. Pete now. Will take at least 2 years to get it built up.

I imagine a lot of waitresses will be heading out too since nowhere to work. Coastline of Naples, Ft. Myers Beach the hot spots wiped out.

The economy is going to suck too locally. Service based sector and no season coming up now. Anyone who worked on Ft. Myers beach and made their bank from Nov to April is really screwed.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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That's sad to hear. I've never been to that part of Florida, but I'm sure it was beautiful. I would say that it would rebuild, but just building cities that close to the gulf coastline are definitely questionable right now.
 

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That's sad to hear. I've never been to that part of Florida, but I'm sure it was beautiful. I would say that it would rebuild, but just building cities that close to the gulf coastline are definitely questionable right now.
I will rebuild but take a couple years. Lets say in three months they open the beach to the public. Will be nowhere to eat or drink, no pier. Basically just sit there.

FL from Venice to Marco Island is really banged up right now but the coastal areas are going to have a localized depression since they rely on the winter season and tourist. Especially Ft. Myers beach, Naples, Sanibel Island.
 

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Isn't this the oldest median age area in the country?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Isn't this the oldest median age area in the country?
It is where The Golden Girls and the movie Cocoon was filmed.

Florida will rebuild especially any costal areas, it is all big money there.
If you want to build a life in that region in the long haul, stay and help rebuild and live through it to tell the tale.
 

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Most spring breakers and young people will go up to St. Pete now.
Tampa/St. Pete was also hard hit by the hurricane.

Isn't this the oldest median age area in the country?
Naples is in Collier County, FL, where the median age is 52. Fort Myers is in the more populated Lee County, where the median age is 48.

I can't imagine why 18-25 year old spring breakers would go to an area where the median age person is around age 50.

The dating market in Naples/Fort Myers is more of the Match/OurTime crowd. Those would be the people most affected by the post hurricane dating market, not a 37 year old going for 25-35 year olds.
 

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Tampa/St. Pete was also hard hit by the hurricane.
Not really

I live in an area that was in the eyewall of Ian. I mean dead center of it! Already the oldest area of the United States, but Ian took out Ft. Myers beach, and surrounding areas like mine that didn't get storm surge got wind damage. Lots of damage to homes. Lots of restaurants, bars destroyed. I woudn't be shocked with the high insurance rates to come that young people simply move out of FL now.

But Ft. Myers beach is demolished. Think of the MS coastline after Katrina. Everything wiped out. Most spring breakers and young people will go up to St. Pete now. Will take at least 2 years to get it built up.

I imagine a lot of waitresses will be heading out too since nowhere to work. Coastline of Naples, Ft. Myers Beach the hot spots wiped out.

The economy is going to suck too locally. Service based sector and no season coming up now. Anyone who worked on Ft. Myers beach and made their bank from Nov to April is really screwed.
Life will go on. You have to think more positive and more creative than that. You have a shared experience, now is a good time to make new friends and find new things to do.
 

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I live in an area that was in the eyewall of Ian. I mean dead center of it! Already the oldest area of the United States, but Ian took out Ft. Myers beach, and surrounding areas like mine that didn't get storm surge got wind damage. Lots of damage to homes. Lots of restaurants, bars destroyed. I woudn't be shocked with the high insurance rates to come that young people simply move out of FL now.

But Ft. Myers beach is demolished. Think of the MS coastline after Katrina. Everything wiped out. Most spring breakers and young people will go up to St. Pete now. Will take at least 2 years to get it built up.

I imagine a lot of waitresses will be heading out too since nowhere to work. Coastline of Naples, Ft. Myers Beach the hot spots wiped out.

The economy is going to suck too locally. Service based sector and no season coming up now. Anyone who worked on Ft. Myers beach and made their bank from Nov to April is really screwed.
 

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Not really
I guess I was wrong there. Anyway, more spring breakers went to Tampa/St. Pete anyway than Naples/Ft. Myers. The median age in Hillsborough County (Tampa) is lower than Lee or Collier Counties (Naples & Ft. Myers). Median age in Pinellas County (St. Pete) is similar to Lee County.

 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tampa/St. Pete was also hard hit by the hurricane.



Naples is in Collier County, FL, where the median age is 52. Fort Myers is in the more populated Lee County, where the median age is 48.

I can't imagine why 18-25 year old spring breakers would go to an area where the median age person is around age 50.

The dating market in Naples/Fort Myers is more of the Match/OurTime crowd. Those would be the people most affected by the post hurricane dating market, not a 37 year old going for 25-35 year olds.
Tampa didn't get hit hard. Just wind gusts into the 60s. Life is normal up there. South of BRadenton got hit harder, especially Venice on South.

And that's kinda incorrect. Sure, it's old folks land but Ft. Myers beach, downtown Ft. Myers is where the few young locals hangout at go on dates etc. The beaches by me the young people are mainly the high school aged girls, way too young (and illegal in FL.)

Downtown Ft. Myers got storm surge as well being on the river and ruined stuff.

Most of the restaurants, date spots south of Punta Gorda near the beach no longer exist. Gone.

I would think also girls in their 20s and 30s who are waiters will also have to move since everything got trashed that had surge. Ft. Myers beach will take at least 2 years.
 
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