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That C knew you had been a babe magnet before her but she wanted to take your power. If you let her string you along and use your time she will.
Well, yes these Women will do that but it's because of my previous success that trapped me into thinking I could turn this time waster into a girl who I'd end up banging but never did until ultimately I realized, these Women just liked to bullsh*t around.
 

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Well, yes these Women will do that but it's because of my previous success that trapped me into thinking I could turn this time waster into a girl who I'd end up banging but never did until ultimately I realized, these Women just liked to bullsh*t around.
Yep your ego kept you in there because you had to be right and the longer you stay the more degraded you get. Whats even more insulting is the guys she allowed to slide up in there... Your like "what the fvck"...
 

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What do you like to ask a potential Type C to find out if she's wasting your time?
Me personally, I would ask them outright when were they available to meet up/ hang out for a drink. If they gave a vague answer the first time around with something like "I'm not sure yet, I'll have to get back to you" or use any of the following words such as "Maybe" "Possibly" "Potentially" "I'll see" etc. That would set the alarm off in my head as this girl might be full of it but I wouldnt jump to any conclusions just yet.

I'd wait maybe a week or so and if I hadn't heard from her, I would attempt one more time by asking when she was available in the near future. If I'm met again with a vague or unclear answer such as "That sounds fun! but im not sure yet" or "I might have to go to my best friends B-day but not sure when she's setting it so ill let you know!".

Once I got this, I immediately deleted the number and got that vampire out of my life. What's comical is these types of girls will put exclamation points and emoji's to show their "Interest" but it's all BS. IF she reaches out to me by text in the future, I wouldn't recognize the number and genuinely ask "Who is this?". Then If i am met with "Omg you dont remember me? lol" or "Oh im a stranger now? haha". Once they revealed who they were, I would tell them why I deleted their number "Oh, Hey Melissa. No i do remember you but i deleted your number because you were never down to really hang out and hook up".

That last line did two things: Put them on the spot to either follow through or if not, they knew I would discard them. The ones who really wanted to hook up with you will follow through. The time waster will back off because she knows she's been exposed.
 

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Yep your ego kept you in there because you had to be right and the longer you stay the more degraded you get. Whats even more insulting is the guys she allowed to slide up in there... Your like "what the fvck"...
Yes, Women will use a Man's ego to their advantage if the Man is not self aware. All Men in some form have an ego, we are the driven gender and that's a good thing but can also be a bad thing in certain situations.
 

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Energy vampire? She saw a man with a lot of personal power, stacks of ambition and energy and came to take a bite?
 

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I have been there myself and realized that it was just my ego keeping me interested. Prior to that realization, it definitely was a drag on my self esteem. Sometimes these vixens will still outfox me, for a while anyway.

I think that it is a self protection thing on their part, related to their own, poor self esteem. Acting as a "B" They get the ego/attention/validation boost without any real risk of rejection. They then date down where she knows that she holds all the power and would probably never get rejected, especially since her guy sees the thirst that surrounds her. This could also provide yet another explanation to why you see guys dating above their level.

The ones who really wanted to hook up with you will follow through. The time waster will back off because she knows she's been exposed.
Or she will play the LJBF card to try and keep you around.
 

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Or she will play the LJBF card to try and keep you around.
If a chick comes out with "Let's just be friends", it should be met with a reply like "Thanks for the offer but I'm not talking to you to be friends. I am talking to you because I am sexually attracted to you" or if you want to be bold X rated "Thanks for the offer but I'm not talking to you to be friends. I am talking to you because I am sexually attracted to you and I want to give you multiple orgasms".
 

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Great Analogy. I've always said the best sales guys are the ones that do the best with women.

Also as in sales, it's important to offer after sales support too. Many guys get to the sex part but can't keep them. And that's ok if you are after just a hookup or notches. But after you get the sale, you need to learn how to go into maintenance mode if you're seeking anything more. Only some know how to do this though...
 

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Great Analogy. I've always said the best sales guys are the ones that do the best with women.

Also as in sales, it's important to offer after sales support too. Many guys get to the sex part but can't keep them. And that's ok if you are after just a hookup or notches. But after you get the sale, you need to learn how to go into maintenance mode if you're seeking anything more. Only some know how to do this though...
Yes, if they really like the product (Guy), they'll sign up for the subscription package lol. Marketing/Sales = Dating
 

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Yes, if they really like the product (Guy), they'll sign up for the subscription package lol. Marketing/Sales = Dating
Yeah. And if you're having a hard time making any sales, a lot of the time the problem is you're trying to sell a sh*tty product lol. So, you want to do the Self Improvement until you can raise the quality of said product(you.)
 

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Yeah. And if you're having a hard time making any sales, a lot of the time the problem is you're trying to sell a sh*tty product lol. So, you want to do the Self Improvement until you can raise the quality of said product(you.)
Exactly haha :up:
 

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In my business I obviously deal with marketing strategy and acquiring customers and the more I thought about it, the more I realize it's pretty much the same thing as dating.

When you are marketing, you are looking to bring in the most qualified and best potential customers that are highly likely to buy from you but the problem is that you will run into 4 types of people.

  1. Person A - These people don't need much of a push to buy your product because they like your product, can afford your product and are likely to make the sale without much effort. Easy Simple Sale.
  2. Person B - These people like your product, can afford your product but need a bit more of a push or pitch in order for you to make the sale. Once they are persuaded a bit, they go ahead and buy. You make the sale.
  3. Person C - These are the worst types of people for your business but also the most difficult to identify. They are phony potential buyers. They will ask you questions about your product, take test drives, walk into open houses and ask questions about the house, walk into your store and walk around asking questions about your product on the shelves, scan your website and click on all the pages, maybe even adding a product to their cart, whatever it is..... but THEY HAVE NO REAL INTENTION OF EVER BUYING FROM YOU. They are time sucking vampires that will waste your marketing money and or time. You have to try and identify these types as soon as possible and get them out of your sales funnel as quickly as possible.
  4. Person D - These people are easy to identify because they show no real interest in your product or services. They will either tell you they have no interest or walk out of your store, off your website or whatever but they show no interest right away.

Let's translate this into the dating scene:


  1. Girl A - These girls don't need much of a push to meet up and have sex with you. They find you very attractive and have a high level of interest in you. Doesn't take much effort to close the deal with these girls.
  2. Girl B - These girls think you're kinda cute but eh,... still unsure for whatever reason. They'll think about it for a bit but after a little persuasion, they end up meeting up with you and if they enjoy themselves, open themselves up to having sex with you.
  3. Girl C - The worst types of girls to deal with in your dating life but the most difficult to identify. They will act as if they have high level of interest in you by texting you, talking with you, flirting with you and/or joke around with you. They might even hang out with you alone and give you subtle compliments but.... THEY HAVE NO REAL INTENTION OF EVER HAVING SEX WITH YOU. They are time sucking vampires that will waste your time, energy and money and you need to get them out of your dating life as quickly as possible. These are "phony leads" and will continue running you in circles indefinitely.
  4. Girl D - These girls are easy to identify because they will flat out tell you that they are not interested and/or they are already taken. No confusion with these types of girls.

In sales or digital marketing, you would need to filter the C types out by asking questions or somehow filter them out on a digital marketing platform. In the dating scene, it's important to ask her questions that exposes her for what type of girl you are dealing with. The more upfront and direct you are with them, the more they expose themselves for the type they are and then you proceed accordingly.
Good post. Nice view of it.
A-D are all relative to the product your selling. ****ty product ****ty sales.
C are the most fun because they are the most challenging and will sharpen your game and internalizatio much quicker then A. Practice on C and A B and D get much easier.
 

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Yeah. And if you're having a hard time making any sales, a lot of the time the problem is you're trying to sell a sh*tty product lol. So, you want to do the Self Improvement until you can raise the quality of said product(you.)
Nick beat me too it. Spot on.
Mental point of origin is us the product being offered.
 

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