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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

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Dating in mueseum?

michaelhctam

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Ok, I read in a few posts that it is wise to not be predictable and cliche when it comes to dates;

So I thought instead of movies or coffee would it be wise to bring her to a museum? It would be educational, it will be action filled......we get to talk alot about interesting subjects, we can subject ourselves to new things and discover new things together, we can make good memories.

What I am hoping to achieve is (for example) we looked at Modern Art and she saw grafitti on exhibit, so whenever she walks down the street in the city and sees some grafitti she will remember me.

And also it would be a good chance to show my worth by displaying my intellelect :p

What you DJ's think?
 

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THE_ADDMAN

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absolutely. why not?

If you enjoy museums, go for it.

at the very least, u'll have fun :)
 

Boschy

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Let me ask you this question:

What do you want to do on a date?

It seems like you are trying to find activities that will let you impress her. If you enjoy museums then fine, great, just go. Whether she likes them or not is immaterial. If you both like them then that's obviously a no-brainer.

But what about re-framing yourself as the Prize and wondering how she is going to impress you? :D
 

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Trying to impress with intellect is a bad idea. Fun is more important. Go to the museum by all means but make sure you don't spend the entire time telling her the latin name for everything. At some stage you better try to feed her to a T-Rex skeleton to "put some meat on its bones" or something...

JJ
 

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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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