"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Dating in mueseum?

michaelhctam

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Ok, I read in a few posts that it is wise to not be predictable and cliche when it comes to dates;

So I thought instead of movies or coffee would it be wise to bring her to a museum? It would be educational, it will be action filled......we get to talk alot about interesting subjects, we can subject ourselves to new things and discover new things together, we can make good memories.

What I am hoping to achieve is (for example) we looked at Modern Art and she saw grafitti on exhibit, so whenever she walks down the street in the city and sees some grafitti she will remember me.

And also it would be a good chance to show my worth by displaying my intellelect :p

What you DJ's think?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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THE_ADDMAN

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absolutely. why not?

If you enjoy museums, go for it.

at the very least, u'll have fun :)
 

Boschy

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Let me ask you this question:

What do you want to do on a date?

It seems like you are trying to find activities that will let you impress her. If you enjoy museums then fine, great, just go. Whether she likes them or not is immaterial. If you both like them then that's obviously a no-brainer.

But what about re-framing yourself as the Prize and wondering how she is going to impress you? :D
 

Jay Jay

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Trying to impress with intellect is a bad idea. Fun is more important. Go to the museum by all means but make sure you don't spend the entire time telling her the latin name for everything. At some stage you better try to feed her to a T-Rex skeleton to "put some meat on its bones" or something...

JJ
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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