"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dating in mueseum?

michaelhctam

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Ok, I read in a few posts that it is wise to not be predictable and cliche when it comes to dates;

So I thought instead of movies or coffee would it be wise to bring her to a museum? It would be educational, it will be action filled......we get to talk alot about interesting subjects, we can subject ourselves to new things and discover new things together, we can make good memories.

What I am hoping to achieve is (for example) we looked at Modern Art and she saw grafitti on exhibit, so whenever she walks down the street in the city and sees some grafitti she will remember me.

And also it would be a good chance to show my worth by displaying my intellelect :p

What you DJ's think?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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THE_ADDMAN

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absolutely. why not?

If you enjoy museums, go for it.

at the very least, u'll have fun :)
 

Boschy

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Let me ask you this question:

What do you want to do on a date?

It seems like you are trying to find activities that will let you impress her. If you enjoy museums then fine, great, just go. Whether she likes them or not is immaterial. If you both like them then that's obviously a no-brainer.

But what about re-framing yourself as the Prize and wondering how she is going to impress you? :D
 

Jay Jay

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Trying to impress with intellect is a bad idea. Fun is more important. Go to the museum by all means but make sure you don't spend the entire time telling her the latin name for everything. At some stage you better try to feed her to a T-Rex skeleton to "put some meat on its bones" or something...

JJ
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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