"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dating crisis is just natural selection?

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Things have changed.
Many MGTOW, others actually enjoy their life.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I saw this video too.

It's true to some extent. Swim or fecking sink. If you can't convince ONE fecking woman on planet earth to take your seed then it's probably natural to see your bloodline go extinct ..harsh but true...

Most of us aint here because our tree exists out of romantic love stories, but due to cheating, r-ape, passport bro-ing, broken comdoms or in earlier times unwanted pregnancies ect.

dudes marry they cousins and yet get to continue their bloodline...others buy a 3rd world hooker and impregnate her...i dont condone neither of those but hey...sink or swim!!!



I don't call it natural selection as much as a institutional and societal problems. Men in the 1950s or 40s didn't have this problem and were family oriented, patriarchal and had a lot of things going for them.
Other eras please??...ExaExactly ,crickets .

The moment when men our age were send to the frontlines to die is nowadays looked upon as "the best time to date" . You as an Asian man should know that the only reason we in the west could thrive was 1. Due to slavery that just ended and 2 m due to cheap labor from mainly SEA.

That era was (un)natural selection at its finest. Domestic violence was "normal " because people were stuck in their dead marriage...
 

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Well my earliest memories are of the late Forties,the fifties are quite vivid but not so Rose Coloured as others...Sure finding a Lady was easy,but you had to keep her at home.In Government Jobs when a Woman Employee married she had to leave!...For many life was short,mean and outside of the Pub quite miserable....Slavery ended for the British World in 1833 for the States a bit later,I believe it ended as much as anything because Foreign labour was cheaper!...in my Childhood the "hewers of wood and carriers of water" were often Irish or Italian...Yes,"Wife Bashing"was common,Women in particular are much better off today.
 

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Well my earliest memories are of the late Forties,the fifties are quite vivid but not so Rose Coloured as others...Sure finding a Lady was easy,but you had to keep her at home.In Government Jobs when a Woman Employee married she had to leave!...For many life was short,mean and outside of the Pub quite miserable....Slavery ended for the British World in 1833 for the States a bit later,I believe it ended as much as anything because Foreign labour was cheaper!...in my Childhood the "hewers of wood and carriers of water" were often Irish or Italian...Yes,"Wife Bashing"was common,Women in particular are much better off today.
It worked the same for female teachers in the 40's in the US. Once you got married you couldn't be a teacher anymore. The school leaders felt that you couldn't do as good of a job because your focus would be on your children instead of your students.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This comparing humankind to the natural world crap is soon to be outdated if not obsolete. The ET's observing us only consider humans to be a "developing species" of all the animals on Earth.

We're supposed to be above the animal kingdom.
 

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Many MGTOW, others actually enjoy their life.
Yet, most of them have spent a few million hours on f-c-ing YouTube, grousing over how awful life is, just like The Wokesters they claim to be adversaries of
 

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Hi Duke,
We seem to have exempted Teachers from the general law as one in three of mine were femmes....In the Seventies I sat in on job interviews for a typist,comptometrist (No Calculators LOL)The best applicant by far seemed to me,to be a young married Woman with kids...The Head Honcho on the panel wouldn't have her as he said she will always put her Kids first,So maybe your Schoolies had something?
 

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Hi Billy,
"...Supposed to be above the Animal community..." But can we stay above the A.I.bots we are pupping?
 

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Yet, most of them have spent a few million hours on f-c-ing YouTube, grousing over how awful life is, just like The Wokesters they claim to be adversaries of
Everyone is supposed to get screwed who isn't "in the club" George Carlin spoke of.

How you deal with it is up to you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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