jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
Things have changed.
Many MGTOW, others actually enjoy their life.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Other eras please??...ExaExactly ,crickets .I don't call it natural selection as much as a institutional and societal problems. Men in the 1950s or 40s didn't have this problem and were family oriented, patriarchal and had a lot of things going for them.
It worked the same for female teachers in the 40's in the US. Once you got married you couldn't be a teacher anymore. The school leaders felt that you couldn't do as good of a job because your focus would be on your children instead of your students.Well my earliest memories are of the late Forties,the fifties are quite vivid but not so Rose Coloured as others...Sure finding a Lady was easy,but you had to keep her at home.In Government Jobs when a Woman Employee married she had to leave!...For many life was short,mean and outside of the Pub quite miserable....Slavery ended for the British World in 1833 for the States a bit later,I believe it ended as much as anything because Foreign labour was cheaper!...in my Childhood the "hewers of wood and carriers of water" were often Irish or Italian...Yes,"Wife Bashing"was common,Women in particular are much better off today.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yet, most of them have spent a few million hours on f-c-ing YouTube, grousing over how awful life is, just like The Wokesters they claim to be adversaries ofMany MGTOW, others actually enjoy their life.
Everyone is supposed to get screwed who isn't "in the club" George Carlin spoke of.Yet, most of them have spent a few million hours on f-c-ing YouTube, grousing over how awful life is, just like The Wokesters they claim to be adversaries of
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.