jhonny9546
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Things have changed.
Many MGTOW, others actually enjoy their life.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Dating crisis is just natural selection?
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Things have changed.
Many MGTOW, others actually enjoy their life.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Travel memoir21
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I don't call it natural selection as much as a institutional and societal problems. Men in the 1950s or 40s didn't have this problem and were family oriented, patriarchal and had a lot of things going for them.
Gamisch
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I saw this video too.
It's true to some extent. Swim or fecking sink. If you can't convince ONE fecking woman on planet earth to take your seed then it's probably natural to see your bloodline go extinct ..harsh but true...
Most of us aint here because our tree exists out of romantic love stories, but due to cheating, r-ape, passport bro-ing, broken comdoms or in earlier times unwanted pregnancies ect.
dudes marry they cousins and yet get to continue their bloodline...others buy a 3rd world hooker and impregnate her...i dont condone neither of those but hey...sink or swim!!!
The moment when men our age were send to the frontlines to die is nowadays looked upon as "the best time to date" . You as an Asian man should know that the only reason we in the west could thrive was 1. Due to slavery that just ended and 2 m due to cheap labor from mainly SEA.
That era was (un)natural selection at its finest. Domestic violence was "normal " because people were stuck in their dead marriage...
It's true to some extent. Swim or fecking sink. If you can't convince ONE fecking woman on planet earth to take your seed then it's probably natural to see your bloodline go extinct ..harsh but true...
Most of us aint here because our tree exists out of romantic love stories, but due to cheating, r-ape, passport bro-ing, broken comdoms or in earlier times unwanted pregnancies ect.
dudes marry they cousins and yet get to continue their bloodline...others buy a 3rd world hooker and impregnate her...i dont condone neither of those but hey...sink or swim!!!
Other eras please??...ExaExactly ,crickets .
The moment when men our age were send to the frontlines to die is nowadays looked upon as "the best time to date" . You as an Asian man should know that the only reason we in the west could thrive was 1. Due to slavery that just ended and 2 m due to cheap labor from mainly SEA.
That era was (un)natural selection at its finest. Domestic violence was "normal " because people were stuck in their dead marriage...
Scaramouche
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Well my earliest memories are of the late Forties,the fifties are quite vivid but not so Rose Coloured as others...Sure finding a Lady was easy,but you had to keep her at home.In Government Jobs when a Woman Employee married she had to leave!...For many life was short,mean and outside of the Pub quite miserable....Slavery ended for the British World in 1833 for the States a bit later,I believe it ended as much as anything because Foreign labour was cheaper!...in my Childhood the "hewers of wood and carriers of water" were often Irish or Italian...Yes,"Wife Bashing"was common,Women in particular are much better off today.
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It worked the same for female teachers in the 40's in the US. Once you got married you couldn't be a teacher anymore. The school leaders felt that you couldn't do as good of a job because your focus would be on your children instead of your students.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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This comparing humankind to the natural world crap is soon to be outdated if not obsolete. The ET's observing us only consider humans to be a "developing species" of all the animals on Earth.
We're supposed to be above the animal kingdom.
We're supposed to be above the animal kingdom.
BaronOfHair
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Yet, most of them have spent a few million hours on f-c-ing YouTube, grousing over how awful life is, just like The Wokesters they claim to be adversaries of
Scaramouche
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Hi Duke,
We seem to have exempted Teachers from the general law as one in three of mine were femmes....In the Seventies I sat in on job interviews for a typist,comptometrist (No Calculators LOL)The best applicant by far seemed to me,to be a young married Woman with kids...The Head Honcho on the panel wouldn't have her as he said she will always put her Kids first,So maybe your Schoolies had something?
We seem to have exempted Teachers from the general law as one in three of mine were femmes....In the Seventies I sat in on job interviews for a typist,comptometrist (No Calculators LOL)The best applicant by far seemed to me,to be a young married Woman with kids...The Head Honcho on the panel wouldn't have her as he said she will always put her Kids first,So maybe your Schoolies had something?
Scaramouche
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Hi Billy,
"...Supposed to be above the Animal community..." But can we stay above the A.I.bots we are pupping?
"...Supposed to be above the Animal community..." But can we stay above the A.I.bots we are pupping?
BillyPilgrim
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Everyone is supposed to get screwed who isn't "in the club" George Carlin spoke of.
How you deal with it is up to you.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.