"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dating bio success tips?

eyeam

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So, I'm gonna get back on the dating apps.

I've heard good (ish) things about Hinge? thoughts from experience?

I'm a little rusty. Recently single. You guys have any tips/links writing a reasonably solid bio?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

BackInTheGame78

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So, I'm gonna get back on the dating apps.

I've heard good (ish) things about Hinge? thoughts from experience?

I'm a little rusty. Recently single. You guys have any tips/links writing a reasonably solid bio?
I've done well on both Hinge and Bumble
 

Hamurabimbi

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I used Tinder. I don’t think bio makes a big difference unless you put something unsettling in it. My ex-, who I met on Tinder told me she went on a date with a guy from Tinder she didn’t find attractive. But. she liked his bio. When they met up. She told him:’no kissing. No sex.’. He still took her out to dinner & a ballgame.
 

Macadellic

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Every word you write in your bio you are signaling.
Just like in real life, women will judge the words that come out of your mouth.
-Verbal intelligence is displayed in your bio.

In your bio be honest.
If you are 5”9 don’t put you are 6 foot
-If you lie about your height she will think what else you lied about in your bio.

Make sure your bio shows what you care about,
-your intelligent (career)
-your empathetic (you have nieces, nephews, a dog)
-your passions (CrossFit, volunteer big brother)
-your ambitions (working towards insert a goal)

Don’t brag,
It’s better if she finds for herself later on you have a vintage voltswagon split window bus in mint condition and land with horses, a garage full of soccer trophies, etc

This a guideline, think for yourself.
 
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