"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dating bio success tips?

eyeam

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So, I'm gonna get back on the dating apps.

I've heard good (ish) things about Hinge? thoughts from experience?

I'm a little rusty. Recently single. You guys have any tips/links writing a reasonably solid bio?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

BackInTheGame78

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So, I'm gonna get back on the dating apps.

I've heard good (ish) things about Hinge? thoughts from experience?

I'm a little rusty. Recently single. You guys have any tips/links writing a reasonably solid bio?
I've done well on both Hinge and Bumble
 

Hamurabimbi

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I used Tinder. I don’t think bio makes a big difference unless you put something unsettling in it. My ex-, who I met on Tinder told me she went on a date with a guy from Tinder she didn’t find attractive. But. she liked his bio. When they met up. She told him:’no kissing. No sex.’. He still took her out to dinner & a ballgame.
 

Macadellic

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Every word you write in your bio you are signaling.
Just like in real life, women will judge the words that come out of your mouth.
-Verbal intelligence is displayed in your bio.

In your bio be honest.
If you are 5”9 don’t put you are 6 foot
-If you lie about your height she will think what else you lied about in your bio.

Make sure your bio shows what you care about,
-your intelligent (career)
-your empathetic (you have nieces, nephews, a dog)
-your passions (CrossFit, volunteer big brother)
-your ambitions (working towards insert a goal)

Don’t brag,
It’s better if she finds for herself later on you have a vintage voltswagon split window bus in mint condition and land with horses, a garage full of soccer trophies, etc

This a guideline, think for yourself.
 
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