"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dating bio success tips?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Just like in real life, women will judge the words that come out of your mouth.
-Verbal intelligence is displayed in your bio.
In your bio be honest.
If you are 5”9 don’t put you are 6 foot
-If you lie about your height she will think what else you lied about in your bio.
Make sure your bio shows what you care about,
-your intelligent (career)
-your empathetic (you have nieces, nephews, a dog)
-your passions (CrossFit, volunteer big brother)
-your ambitions (working towards insert a goal)
Don’t brag,
It’s better if she finds for herself later on you have a vintage voltswagon split window bus in mint condition and land with horses, a garage full of soccer trophies, etc
This a guideline, think for yourself.