JohnChops
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This thread brings the stupidity of mankind to a new level.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Dating a girl who's ex is a black guy
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Learn how to not give a fvck. What, you think her pvssy is some piece of unmarked jewel thathas the value of your entire self worth? If you hit it, enjoy it and if for whatever reason you two no longer fvck then move on. If a woman needs a gigantic c0ck then she is uber loose in more ways than one. Realistically, many women who love massive c0cks are also the type who are willing to cop facials, do anal, do deep throat etc because theyve watched too much p0rn.
Gray The Prince
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I PMed a mod. This should be locked shortly.
alpha_ash
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Well the reason I started this thread is not because I am racist or against interracial couples. In fact, I don't go for girls my own color, so quite the opposite. My concern was that I don't want to waste my time and her's if she isn't going to want what I have to offer.
It's like once you have luxury/premium, you can't be satisfied with anything of lower quality.
So I don't see why this thread needs to be locked. We are here to help each other understand the issues in our lives and dispel misconceptions, aren't we?
It's like once you have luxury/premium, you can't be satisfied with anything of lower quality.
So I don't see why this thread needs to be locked. We are here to help each other understand the issues in our lives and dispel misconceptions, aren't we?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Fly By Night
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Wouldn't it be funny if the OP was black too? :crackup:
Don't worry about it man, if you effed some chick with a prominent trait, does that mean you will no longer date a chick who doesn't have it. Don't get me wrong, she might miss dating/effing a black guy, but she's not going completely throw out all guys of other colors.
Don't be insecure.
Don't worry about it man, if you effed some chick with a prominent trait, does that mean you will no longer date a chick who doesn't have it. Don't get me wrong, she might miss dating/effing a black guy, but she's not going completely throw out all guys of other colors.
Don't be insecure.
I'm mixed with black and white and I've thought about this at times. I'm above average size, which I'm insecure about, but I usually stop caring at some point and I'm just happy to be getting.
However, I don't date a lot of black women because of it...my insecurities that is.
However, I don't date a lot of black women because of it...my insecurities that is.
Hustlaz Ambition
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No reason to lock the thread OP isn't coming off as a hater/racist at all. Thread has been a good ****ing thread so far aside from one post which seems(no IS) to come from a stormfront member.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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