JohnChops
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This thread brings the stupidity of mankind to a new level.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dating a girl who's ex is a black guy
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Learn how to not give a fvck. What, you think her pvssy is some piece of unmarked jewel thathas the value of your entire self worth? If you hit it, enjoy it and if for whatever reason you two no longer fvck then move on. If a woman needs a gigantic c0ck then she is uber loose in more ways than one. Realistically, many women who love massive c0cks are also the type who are willing to cop facials, do anal, do deep throat etc because theyve watched too much p0rn.
Gray The Prince
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I PMed a mod. This should be locked shortly.
alpha_ash
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Well the reason I started this thread is not because I am racist or against interracial couples. In fact, I don't go for girls my own color, so quite the opposite. My concern was that I don't want to waste my time and her's if she isn't going to want what I have to offer.
It's like once you have luxury/premium, you can't be satisfied with anything of lower quality.
So I don't see why this thread needs to be locked. We are here to help each other understand the issues in our lives and dispel misconceptions, aren't we?
It's like once you have luxury/premium, you can't be satisfied with anything of lower quality.
So I don't see why this thread needs to be locked. We are here to help each other understand the issues in our lives and dispel misconceptions, aren't we?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Fly By Night
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Wouldn't it be funny if the OP was black too? :crackup:
Don't worry about it man, if you effed some chick with a prominent trait, does that mean you will no longer date a chick who doesn't have it. Don't get me wrong, she might miss dating/effing a black guy, but she's not going completely throw out all guys of other colors.
Don't be insecure.
Don't worry about it man, if you effed some chick with a prominent trait, does that mean you will no longer date a chick who doesn't have it. Don't get me wrong, she might miss dating/effing a black guy, but she's not going completely throw out all guys of other colors.
Don't be insecure.
I'm mixed with black and white and I've thought about this at times. I'm above average size, which I'm insecure about, but I usually stop caring at some point and I'm just happy to be getting.
However, I don't date a lot of black women because of it...my insecurities that is.
However, I don't date a lot of black women because of it...my insecurities that is.
Hustlaz Ambition
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No reason to lock the thread OP isn't coming off as a hater/racist at all. Thread has been a good ****ing thread so far aside from one post which seems(no IS) to come from a stormfront member.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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