JohnChops
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This thread brings the stupidity of mankind to a new level.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Dating a girl who's ex is a black guy
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Learn how to not give a fvck. What, you think her pvssy is some piece of unmarked jewel thathas the value of your entire self worth? If you hit it, enjoy it and if for whatever reason you two no longer fvck then move on. If a woman needs a gigantic c0ck then she is uber loose in more ways than one. Realistically, many women who love massive c0cks are also the type who are willing to cop facials, do anal, do deep throat etc because theyve watched too much p0rn.
Gray The Prince
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I PMed a mod. This should be locked shortly.
alpha_ash
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Well the reason I started this thread is not because I am racist or against interracial couples. In fact, I don't go for girls my own color, so quite the opposite. My concern was that I don't want to waste my time and her's if she isn't going to want what I have to offer.
It's like once you have luxury/premium, you can't be satisfied with anything of lower quality.
So I don't see why this thread needs to be locked. We are here to help each other understand the issues in our lives and dispel misconceptions, aren't we?
It's like once you have luxury/premium, you can't be satisfied with anything of lower quality.
So I don't see why this thread needs to be locked. We are here to help each other understand the issues in our lives and dispel misconceptions, aren't we?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Fly By Night
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Wouldn't it be funny if the OP was black too? :crackup:
Don't worry about it man, if you effed some chick with a prominent trait, does that mean you will no longer date a chick who doesn't have it. Don't get me wrong, she might miss dating/effing a black guy, but she's not going completely throw out all guys of other colors.
Don't be insecure.
Don't worry about it man, if you effed some chick with a prominent trait, does that mean you will no longer date a chick who doesn't have it. Don't get me wrong, she might miss dating/effing a black guy, but she's not going completely throw out all guys of other colors.
Don't be insecure.
I'm mixed with black and white and I've thought about this at times. I'm above average size, which I'm insecure about, but I usually stop caring at some point and I'm just happy to be getting.
However, I don't date a lot of black women because of it...my insecurities that is.
However, I don't date a lot of black women because of it...my insecurities that is.
Hustlaz Ambition
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No reason to lock the thread OP isn't coming off as a hater/racist at all. Thread has been a good ****ing thread so far aside from one post which seems(no IS) to come from a stormfront member.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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