"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dating a girl who's ex is a black guy

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Learn how to not give a fvck. What, you think her pvssy is some piece of unmarked jewel thathas the value of your entire self worth? If you hit it, enjoy it and if for whatever reason you two no longer fvck then move on. If a woman needs a gigantic c0ck then she is uber loose in more ways than one. Realistically, many women who love massive c0cks are also the type who are willing to cop facials, do anal, do deep throat etc because theyve watched too much p0rn.
 

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Well the reason I started this thread is not because I am racist or against interracial couples. In fact, I don't go for girls my own color, so quite the opposite. My concern was that I don't want to waste my time and her's if she isn't going to want what I have to offer.

It's like once you have luxury/premium, you can't be satisfied with anything of lower quality.

So I don't see why this thread needs to be locked. We are here to help each other understand the issues in our lives and dispel misconceptions, aren't we?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Wouldn't it be funny if the OP was black too? :crackup:

Don't worry about it man, if you effed some chick with a prominent trait, does that mean you will no longer date a chick who doesn't have it. Don't get me wrong, she might miss dating/effing a black guy, but she's not going completely throw out all guys of other colors.

Don't be insecure.
 

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I'm mixed with black and white and I've thought about this at times. I'm above average size, which I'm insecure about, but I usually stop caring at some point and I'm just happy to be getting.

However, I don't date a lot of black women because of it...my insecurities that is.
 

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does the op not realise that some white guys are pretty well hung too? ffs just get on with your life
 

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No reason to lock the thread OP isn't coming off as a hater/racist at all. Thread has been a good ****ing thread so far aside from one post which seems(no IS) to come from a stormfront member.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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