"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Date with a 10 tonight EXTREMELY NERVOUS

Malex86

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I NEVER get nervous on dates... even if the chick is a strong 8 i'm usually cool with it...

but this is a foreign chick who is not only a perfect 10 in looks but is very smart and successful too...

it's a dinner date and i'm already ****ting my pants on how to behave...

**** i need help QUICK!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Remember, you only get 1 chance at this and if you **** up then you are OUT.

She is super hot, you probably have no chance. I say cancel and watch porn. That is definitely what i would do.
 

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Ease said:
Remember, you only get 1 chance at this and if you **** up then you are OUT.

She is super hot, you probably have no chance. I say cancel and watch porn. That is definitely what i would do.
THIS^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^.
 

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Just want to wish you good luck dude!
And treat her just as you would treat a HB6!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You'd better lose the "nervous" mindset or you won't be taking ol' one eye to the optometrist. Good luck.
 

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Ease said:
Remember, you only get 1 chance at this and if you **** up then you are OUT.

She is super hot, you probably have no chance. I say cancel and watch porn. That is definitely what i would do.
^ What he said. She's a 10. You're dirt compared to human perfection. I don't even know how you can show her a good time... you lowly "average" man.
 

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Just calm down. If she doesn't like you, so what? Relax, don't go thinking the world is going to end if it doesn't work out.

Be yourself. It's all that you can do.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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http://www.google.com/publicdata?ds=wb-wdi&met=sp_pop_totl&tdim=true&dl=en&hl=en&q=world+population

For discussion purposes (I actually lean towards it being a fairly realistic perspective);

...take that current number in the link above and cut it in half = 3,348,627,020 women on this planet.

Eliminate underage and undesirables (HB 5 or lower) by cutting that in half = 1,674,313,510

To be conservative let say we eliminate HB 6's by cutting that last number in half = 837,156,755

To be conservative lets say we eliminate HB 7's by cutting that last number in half = 418,578,377

To be extra conservative lets say HB 8's are fewer and farther apart than typical HB 6's & 7's so lets cut that last number down by 75% = 104,644,594

To be extra conservative lets say HB 9's are fewer and farther apart than typical HB 6's & 7's & 8's so lets cut that last number down by 95% = 5,232,229

To be extra conservative lets say HB 10's are fewer and farther apart than typical HB 6's & 7's & 8's or even 9's so lets cut that last number down by 99% = 52,322

So that means this HB 10 your so nervous about has 52,322 other HB 10's to compete with.

She's not so unique after all.
 
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