"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Date with a 10 tonight EXTREMELY NERVOUS

Malex86

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I NEVER get nervous on dates... even if the chick is a strong 8 i'm usually cool with it...

but this is a foreign chick who is not only a perfect 10 in looks but is very smart and successful too...

it's a dinner date and i'm already ****ting my pants on how to behave...

**** i need help QUICK!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ease

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Remember, you only get 1 chance at this and if you **** up then you are OUT.

She is super hot, you probably have no chance. I say cancel and watch porn. That is definitely what i would do.
 

teacha

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Ease said:
Remember, you only get 1 chance at this and if you **** up then you are OUT.

She is super hot, you probably have no chance. I say cancel and watch porn. That is definitely what i would do.
THIS^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^.
 

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Just want to wish you good luck dude!
And treat her just as you would treat a HB6!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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5string

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You'd better lose the "nervous" mindset or you won't be taking ol' one eye to the optometrist. Good luck.
 

Alle_Gory

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Ease said:
Remember, you only get 1 chance at this and if you **** up then you are OUT.

She is super hot, you probably have no chance. I say cancel and watch porn. That is definitely what i would do.
^ What he said. She's a 10. You're dirt compared to human perfection. I don't even know how you can show her a good time... you lowly "average" man.
 

Galactus

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Just calm down. If she doesn't like you, so what? Relax, don't go thinking the world is going to end if it doesn't work out.

Be yourself. It's all that you can do.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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http://www.google.com/publicdata?ds=wb-wdi&met=sp_pop_totl&tdim=true&dl=en&hl=en&q=world+population

For discussion purposes (I actually lean towards it being a fairly realistic perspective);

...take that current number in the link above and cut it in half = 3,348,627,020 women on this planet.

Eliminate underage and undesirables (HB 5 or lower) by cutting that in half = 1,674,313,510

To be conservative let say we eliminate HB 6's by cutting that last number in half = 837,156,755

To be conservative lets say we eliminate HB 7's by cutting that last number in half = 418,578,377

To be extra conservative lets say HB 8's are fewer and farther apart than typical HB 6's & 7's so lets cut that last number down by 75% = 104,644,594

To be extra conservative lets say HB 9's are fewer and farther apart than typical HB 6's & 7's & 8's so lets cut that last number down by 95% = 5,232,229

To be extra conservative lets say HB 10's are fewer and farther apart than typical HB 6's & 7's & 8's or even 9's so lets cut that last number down by 99% = 52,322

So that means this HB 10 your so nervous about has 52,322 other HB 10's to compete with.

She's not so unique after all.
 
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