"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Date with a 10 tonight EXTREMELY NERVOUS

Malex86

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I NEVER get nervous on dates... even if the chick is a strong 8 i'm usually cool with it...

but this is a foreign chick who is not only a perfect 10 in looks but is very smart and successful too...

it's a dinner date and i'm already ****ting my pants on how to behave...

**** i need help QUICK!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ease

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Remember, you only get 1 chance at this and if you **** up then you are OUT.

She is super hot, you probably have no chance. I say cancel and watch porn. That is definitely what i would do.
 

teacha

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Ease said:
Remember, you only get 1 chance at this and if you **** up then you are OUT.

She is super hot, you probably have no chance. I say cancel and watch porn. That is definitely what i would do.
THIS^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^.
 

K-man

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Just want to wish you good luck dude!
And treat her just as you would treat a HB6!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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5string

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You'd better lose the "nervous" mindset or you won't be taking ol' one eye to the optometrist. Good luck.
 

Alle_Gory

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Ease said:
Remember, you only get 1 chance at this and if you **** up then you are OUT.

She is super hot, you probably have no chance. I say cancel and watch porn. That is definitely what i would do.
^ What he said. She's a 10. You're dirt compared to human perfection. I don't even know how you can show her a good time... you lowly "average" man.
 

Galactus

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Just calm down. If she doesn't like you, so what? Relax, don't go thinking the world is going to end if it doesn't work out.

Be yourself. It's all that you can do.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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http://www.google.com/publicdata?ds=wb-wdi&met=sp_pop_totl&tdim=true&dl=en&hl=en&q=world+population

For discussion purposes (I actually lean towards it being a fairly realistic perspective);

...take that current number in the link above and cut it in half = 3,348,627,020 women on this planet.

Eliminate underage and undesirables (HB 5 or lower) by cutting that in half = 1,674,313,510

To be conservative let say we eliminate HB 6's by cutting that last number in half = 837,156,755

To be conservative lets say we eliminate HB 7's by cutting that last number in half = 418,578,377

To be extra conservative lets say HB 8's are fewer and farther apart than typical HB 6's & 7's so lets cut that last number down by 75% = 104,644,594

To be extra conservative lets say HB 9's are fewer and farther apart than typical HB 6's & 7's & 8's so lets cut that last number down by 95% = 5,232,229

To be extra conservative lets say HB 10's are fewer and farther apart than typical HB 6's & 7's & 8's or even 9's so lets cut that last number down by 99% = 52,322

So that means this HB 10 your so nervous about has 52,322 other HB 10's to compete with.

She's not so unique after all.
 
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