"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Date with a 10 tonight EXTREMELY NERVOUS

Malex86

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I NEVER get nervous on dates... even if the chick is a strong 8 i'm usually cool with it...

but this is a foreign chick who is not only a perfect 10 in looks but is very smart and successful too...

it's a dinner date and i'm already ****ting my pants on how to behave...

**** i need help QUICK!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ease

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Remember, you only get 1 chance at this and if you **** up then you are OUT.

She is super hot, you probably have no chance. I say cancel and watch porn. That is definitely what i would do.
 

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Ease said:
Remember, you only get 1 chance at this and if you **** up then you are OUT.

She is super hot, you probably have no chance. I say cancel and watch porn. That is definitely what i would do.
THIS^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^.
 

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Just want to wish you good luck dude!
And treat her just as you would treat a HB6!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You'd better lose the "nervous" mindset or you won't be taking ol' one eye to the optometrist. Good luck.
 

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Ease said:
Remember, you only get 1 chance at this and if you **** up then you are OUT.

She is super hot, you probably have no chance. I say cancel and watch porn. That is definitely what i would do.
^ What he said. She's a 10. You're dirt compared to human perfection. I don't even know how you can show her a good time... you lowly "average" man.
 

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Just calm down. If she doesn't like you, so what? Relax, don't go thinking the world is going to end if it doesn't work out.

Be yourself. It's all that you can do.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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http://www.google.com/publicdata?ds=wb-wdi&met=sp_pop_totl&tdim=true&dl=en&hl=en&q=world+population

For discussion purposes (I actually lean towards it being a fairly realistic perspective);

...take that current number in the link above and cut it in half = 3,348,627,020 women on this planet.

Eliminate underage and undesirables (HB 5 or lower) by cutting that in half = 1,674,313,510

To be conservative let say we eliminate HB 6's by cutting that last number in half = 837,156,755

To be conservative lets say we eliminate HB 7's by cutting that last number in half = 418,578,377

To be extra conservative lets say HB 8's are fewer and farther apart than typical HB 6's & 7's so lets cut that last number down by 75% = 104,644,594

To be extra conservative lets say HB 9's are fewer and farther apart than typical HB 6's & 7's & 8's so lets cut that last number down by 95% = 5,232,229

To be extra conservative lets say HB 10's are fewer and farther apart than typical HB 6's & 7's & 8's or even 9's so lets cut that last number down by 99% = 52,322

So that means this HB 10 your so nervous about has 52,322 other HB 10's to compete with.

She's not so unique after all.
 
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