Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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protienpowder

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I went on my first date today. Our conversation didn't seem to intimate or sexual. It was mostly about our majors in college, what we wanna do with em, extra cirricular activities, ect. I did't feel like I got to know her on a intimate or sexual level, so I didn't go for the kiss.

I don't know how to take it to the next step. I've never had a girlfriend before, so I have no idea how it works. I've read the conversation material in the dj bible, and I can make good conversation with her. But I don't know how to know how to set a sensual/romantic vibe.

Should I just have tried for a kiss anyway?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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protienpowder

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Lucas718 said:
Did you touch her at all? You have to do the kino, man.
No. . . .dang, im sure that was it.
 

DJ_in_making

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protienpowder said:
No. . . .dang, im sure that was it.
yea, that's exactly what it was. And start to show interest too, chicks know guys like them but for some reason want you to make a move. Good job w/ the rapport but just don't get LJBFed.
 

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kino kino kino...you have NO idea how powerful kino is until you do it...and next time try an SOI :cool:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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protienpowder

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specialed said:
kino kino kino...you have NO idea how powerful kino is until you do it...and next time try an SOI :cool:
for sure, its my new priority
 

Nexxus

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yeah kino;
also talkin about school is kinda bad and boring for a relationship... when you meet her, kiss her on da cheek or hug her, then when you're on ya date tease her, grab her, flirt with her, escalate and kiss

and don't forget to dominate, a girl might be attarcted to you but still will never (or nearly never) make the first move (unless they're extremely extremely horny and aren't scared to show it)
 
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