"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I went on my first date today. Our conversation didn't seem to intimate or sexual. It was mostly about our majors in college, what we wanna do with em, extra cirricular activities, ect. I did't feel like I got to know her on a intimate or sexual level, so I didn't go for the kiss.

I don't know how to take it to the next step. I've never had a girlfriend before, so I have no idea how it works. I've read the conversation material in the dj bible, and I can make good conversation with her. But I don't know how to know how to set a sensual/romantic vibe.

Should I just have tried for a kiss anyway?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lucas718 said:
Did you touch her at all? You have to do the kino, man.
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No. . . .dang, im sure that was it.
 
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protienpowder said:
No. . . .dang, im sure that was it.
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yea, that's exactly what it was. And start to show interest too, chicks know guys like them but for some reason want you to make a move. Good job w/ the rapport but just don't get LJBFed.
 
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kino kino kino...you have NO idea how powerful kino is until you do it...and next time try an SOI :cool:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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specialed said:
kino kino kino...you have NO idea how powerful kino is until you do it...and next time try an SOI :cool:
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for sure, its my new priority
 
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yeah kino;
also talkin about school is kinda bad and boring for a relationship... when you meet her, kiss her on da cheek or hug her, then when you're on ya date tease her, grab her, flirt with her, escalate and kiss

and don't forget to dominate, a girl might be attarcted to you but still will never (or nearly never) make the first move (unless they're extremely extremely horny and aren't scared to show it)
 
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